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Gosh PG a full year on this site and I did not know that - its true, you learn something new every day.

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Clemmons NC
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Ah, OK, thanks for the clarification, you two. Now I don't know whether to be relieved or even more disheartened (LOL!), as there was nothing in any way indecent or offensive in any of my previous correspondences - maybe that was the problem ;) Oh, well, such is life... at least now I guess I don't have to wonder if my messages were, in fact, actually even being delivered.

Cheers!

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actually the most common way is just to click display detail on the email, voila you can read it without opening. You can also respond that way without opening it since it does give you a reply option.

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OneWith first, welcome to the forums.

Not sure if it was mentioned below so I will post here in case you do not know a little work-around with e-mail. There are two ways people can read their messages without it showing as "READ." Those are, have SLS e-mail sent directly to their personal e-mail - they never have to even log into SLS to see it. They can also click on the envelope beside your name and read the e-mail, again without actually ever opening it.

There may be a third workaround with the mobile app but I am not 100% sure about that. As for why they might read and not respond....the reasons are as diverse as the SLS population.

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I clicked on this thread because the title was "Unread messages." I see most of the responses stating that couples, SF's... (anyone really) are under no obligation to respond to any messages they receive. I get that - and I agree - people shouldn't feel obliged to respond to every message in their box.

Where I have to wonder what's happening is when I respond (promptly and courteously) to someone who has written to me and then I don't hear back. So then I go to my Mailbox and look in my Sent Messages folder and it indicates that my message was never even read (marked "Unread") by the person who just (sometimes mere minutes before) wrote to me. It makes me wonder whether there's something wrong with the system's email server; did they not get my reply and now think I'm the jerk? Frustrating.

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Lurk, we would IF we could...lol

Destin FL
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Destin, you mean you don't have your options set to block messages from single men posing as couples?

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Jello, we still get the ones listed as couples faking it..IM off, block single guys and no free members!

Destin FL
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We have done 2 really simple things so that we do not get e-mail/contact from unwanteds. First our IM is off (for many reasons, one it crashes the computer, 2 we do not have any communication without the other) and second, we are invisible to singles males and free members. Poof, no more unwanted single males contacting us!

Fuquay Varina NC
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Typical email I just got a few minutes ago...1 word "cute"...now how would you respond to that? We do not think it deserves a response.

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