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I've unblocked my profile so it's open to everyone. I'll see how that works out.

As for my travel schedule, it's all over the place. I travel the entire US and occasionally internationally. I do seem to visit some cities more frequently than others like the DC/Baltimore area. I have thought about publishing my travel schedule in my profile, but I don't know if it would make a difference.

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First, you may want to try unblocking single males. Other single males are often your best source of new friends.

Presumably, you visit many different cities, but never just once. (e.g., you visit Atlanta twice a year). Women and couples are always looking for single males. When you are going to Atlanta, open your pics to women and couples whose profile you find attractive, change your location to Atlanta, explain in your profile that you are visiting and the dates of your visit, and let them come to you.

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I try to look for couples or single women to meet a week or two in advance of when I'll be travelling to a particular city. I've used Craigslist a few times but it is extremely hit or miss. I've ran into tons of spammers, escorts, single men posing as couples, and flakes but I've also met a few cool couples and single women.

One thing I've had some success doing is holding lifestyle parties at my hotel room when I'm in town. Usually, there are 3 to 6 couples and maybe a few single females in attendance. I ALWAYS make sure everyone knows that I am an unattached male beforehand. Pretty much everyone I've met has been okay with it.

I did meet one woman off Craigslist who admitted that she was married and her husband didn't know she was doing this. She was travelling for work too, and we ended up going out to dinner a few times and did eventually hook up. I'm not sure how to feel about this. There is a huge stigma against men cheating on their spouses but I haven't heard the same amount of criticism of women who do the same. Thoughts?

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this is a hard one, usually those that travel are in town during the week which a lot of the time is much harder for couple to manage a meet. We get quite a few and one of the biggest things is it seems most of them tell us AFTER they are already here. Meets on short notice are pretty much impossible for us, and even more so on a week-night. There also is always the wonder if a traveling man is a married male playing alone...

But my advice would be the same for this as for with any contact, be sure to read the profile to see if you are a match.

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My job requires that I travel a lot for work. In fact, I'm hardly ever home. I case you're wondering, I'm not a trucker or "travelling salesman." If you've ever seen the George Clooney film "Up in the Air" it kind of describes my life. As a result, it makes it impossible for me to maintain a relationship with a partner.

While I'm out on the road, I like to meet single women and couples. Not just for sex, but also to meet new friends. I still keep in touch with several of the people I've met on the road.

I'm not sure how to approach single women or couples within the lifestyle, especially since I might only be in town for a few days, possibly a week or two. Many single women and couples aren't interested in meeting people short-term or they block single males entirely.

Does anyone have any advice for a travelling single male on how to approach couples or single women in the lifestyle?

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