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TOPIC: Swingle in the DMV
Created by: dixonyalips2013
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I am finding that swinging in the DMV as a single black make is becoming more of a fetish than it is actually swinging. Any of the other fellas experience that?

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Just curious, do you guys think couples advertise when they have sex with white guys and ask for discretion only with blacks? The LS is taboo so discretion is required when having sex outside the marriage. Period.

I do think there is a certain fetish aspect for some white women to be with black men but to suggest that the reason they hide it is because you are black is just silly.

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Just look at our society. We still have race issues in this country. So there are a lot of people that would do it if some of their friends and family wouldn't have such a problem with it. So instead they just keep it as a quiet secret, taboo from the rest of their world.......I meet white women all the time that want to be "discreet" and keep it a secret. I personally don't mind it. But i do understand your issue. So i guess when society changes, you see an improvement in this area.

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All the Black men complaining about white women that want to play with you . Give me a break or even cry me a river .

Never heard someone complaining about women that desire you , put on your Big Boy pants and have fun .

I'm so tired of hot women throwing pussy at me , i feel like a piece of meat . waaahhhwaaaahhhh LMAO


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It's the sad truth that may will not admit. There are many women who would sleep with (and even cheat on their men) with black mean, but won't be caught dead in public / social settings with a black man. In the same token, you will find that the women who overcome that hypocrisy are usually the older ones who have either hit middle age, divorced or gone through some life event that made them realize the blinders that have existed all along.


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Yes, demographics may play a role. But then it's absourd. On the other hand I know women just like what you say, they like a black man in bed because he is athletic, hot and hung but then won't date him. For me if someone turns me on in bed, I like to see the guy also out of bed in a social context and then back again in bed, regardless of race or any other considerations. I used to live in New York and there it was not like that, people are more open minded and the same goes for the West Coast where I live now.

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DMV= DC/MD/VA

The prospects here are slim. Considering the area has an abundance of African Americans, the idea of playing with black men doesn't seem all that attractive unless people are doing it as a fetish. I consider sex with women of all shades just different flavors. But some of the same women who will have sex with black men wouldn't entertain the thought of seeing them outside of the bedroom. Just puzzling

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A fetish? You feel that way? How?

I'm a woman so I can't answer from a guy's point of view, but I've a number of black lovers with whom I play regularly and frankly I don't consider it a fetish. For me i'ts just plain hot and good sex. I relate the same way to a guy who is black as to a guy who is not. Race to me is not an issue plus or minus. It just does not matter. The sex is what matters initially and the emotional side too, etc.

On the other hand I've some friends for whom to have sex with a black guy is, yes, as you say it, a kind of fetish. They are kind of closeted to the sexual experience. Too bad for them and I guess that a black guy playing with such women may feel somewhat disappointed or turned off.

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Live, District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia

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I am finding that swinging in the DMV as a single black make is becoming more of a fetish than it is actually swinging. Any of the other fellas experience that?

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TOPIC: Swingle in the DMV