165
Single males who block other single males : Swingers Discussion 1417651021
Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.
SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

HELP
FORUMSSuccessful SwingingAchieving Single Male SuccessSingle males who block other single males
TOPIC: Single males who block other single males
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4
Start   21 to 30 of 35   End
User Details are only visible to members.
I agree-it's pointless and stupid to block single males. I do not block my profile and have never been hit on by another guy. Worse case scenario, some dude let's me know he wants to suck my cock. Tell him "no"-problem solved! I mean if the thought of another guy merely soliciting play from you is so distressing to you that you gotta block viewing of profiles from other single men then you've got issues and should get over your homophobia - you're potentially limiting your possibilities. Lots of single guys come on here and are not partnered but are fucking around with females who would like a 3-some with a second guy participant.

Saint Clair Shores MI
 
 
Username hidden
(228 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Since I've been on the site (and that's been over 3 years now) I've never blocked other single males, I don't see the point. I think since I've been on here I've been contacted by only one single that sent me a weird message and I blocked his ass quick.

I've actually be contacted occasionally, more by couples where the guy is listed as straight but they want some bi activity (they obviously didn't read my profile) and I proceeded to tell them that, that's obviously not my thing and I'm not interested.

Lately I've been contacted by people (mostly couples) that only want to chat with me to see my pics...

Far Rockaway NY
 
 
Username hidden
(50 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I went through a stage early on here on SLS where I blocked single guys. It was in response to unsolicited BJ requests I was getting from single males.

I've since reconsidered. The value of having a trusted network of other single males to compare notes with cannot be overstated and having your presence here on SLS "open" to building those kinds of relationships is a prerequisite.

Karl

Daniels MD
 
 
Username hidden
(343 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Fucker...now I need to go take an acid shower!

lol

Poland OH
 
 
Username hidden
(11885 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Agree. The only Bi-males who have contacted me have been through a couples profile.

Regarding males keeping their profile open, here's a true story: A fuckbuddy texted me one evening for a booty call, very horny, but I was out of town. She wasn't an SLS member. I went to the profile of a couple I knew, who had several certs from other single males. Some of those males blocked other males so I couldn't see them or contact them. But one guy had a nice looking profile, with good certs, so I contacted him through SLS, vouched for how hot this chick was, and two hours later he was fucking her.

It might not happen often, but that one guy had a lot more fun one night than the SM's whose profiles were invisible to me.

Belle Chasse LA
 
 
Username hidden
(10427 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I agree, I have not had gay/bi SINGLE males contact me but I have had COUPLES IM me asking if I was bi, even though the guy is listed as straight! lol

BTW, I keep mine open to SMs and I do occasionally search for SMs in the area with certs to join me as a group for ladies looking for more than one guy. I have been asked by two couples if I could host a gang bang so it is helpful for me to see SM profiles

Poland OH
 
 
Username hidden
(11885 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I have had a single male profile on this site since 2002, and not once have I received a soliciitation from a gay or bi man.

Memphis TN
 
 
Username hidden
(2798 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I think that is preatty simple they don't want to be approached by gay or bi guys

Wichita Falls TX
 
 
Username hidden
(235 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I think that this is a really good topic. I don't mind if other guys read my profile, but I wish that they would actually read it. I grew tired of other guys who ask if they can give me head. I am polite about it and reply with something to the effect of "Sorry, but I'm not interested." There was one gentleman in particular from Pittsburgh who IM'd me and sent me emails constantly asking for me to show up, allow him to blow me and then he would set up another meeting with his lady friend of whom he could not produce a photo of. I was polite and chatted with him a few times before I grew tired of that game, and he was was not the only one, but easily the most persistant. I am not worried about whether other guys are successful with this site. In fact, I hope that they are! If we had more single guys who are finding people to play with, then perhaps more couples and single ladies would open their arms to more single men. For me, I'm just tired of getting messages from men who want to have sex, when it is clearly not what I am looking for and it's discouraging when it may be the only email that you're recieving at that period of time.

Boardman OH
 
 
Username hidden
(10 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I really see no sense in blocking anybody. Don't get me wrong. Three people I have engaged with in verbal spats on the forums have blocked me, but in all honesty it makes no sense. It's not like I would ever aproach any of them for sex. For one thing, I only want to have sex with people I like and who I think like me. For the other, they all live very, very , very far away and I don't see myself traveling that far just for sex, LOL...

Even though I don't technically dislike any of those people (honestly they are just strangers), I don't want to be with anybody who doesnt want to be with me. I never could understand that whole concept of "Grugdge fucking."

I guess I am that rare individual, who, when told he is barred from going someplace doesn't want to go there anyway, LOL...

And you make a very good point about friendship. In theory, most of the people on this web site are swingers. We all pretty much have that in common. We are basically a societal subculture. Notice that other societal subcultures have a feeling of unity that is surprisingly lacking in 'the lifestyle." Gay people consider themselves a community. Pagan people consider themselves a community. SHouldnt 'swingers consider ourselves a community? In reality many of us have similar views on a LOT ofthings besides swinging. I was sorta surprised to find out that I am not the only conservative swinger out here. Swinging and friendship are things that should go hand in hand.

Logan WV
 
 
Username hidden
(1022 posts)
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4
Start   21 to 30 of 35   End
TOPIC: Single males who block other single males