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TOPIC: Single males rejecting couples
Created by: orionvv9
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This is more of a rant than anything else. I've been on this site for a few months months now, and in the first WEEK, noticed the obvious: single males are treated like the lowest of the low. Why? because a lot of them are weirdos, jerks, assholes, creepers, the list go's on. And thus, we're ALL treated like shit. And when couples want a single male to, a lot (not all) of them think to themselves "this guy should feel lucky to be considered to be a part of our fantasies." And they think you'd never reject them. Yeah, nine times out of ten, that would be correct. But I have (respectfully) rejected two couples, because I wasn't attracted to the females. They were both pissed, of course. One in particular said "how can you reject us? Your no catch yourself. Your lucky a couple even wants your sorry ass! Especially for your age! All you single males are the same. Full of disappointment!" I, of course, blocked them after that. but it made me laugh. I know I'm anything BUT a model, and I'm even more limited considering my young age. But just because I'm a single male doesn't mean I can't be at least a little selective either? If your not attracted to someone, then that's it. It is what it is. We all have preferences, some FAR TOO MANY! But to each his own. But just because I'm a single male, doesn't mean I'm going to get on my knees "know my place" and kiss your feet. I'm a person too, and I show respect to everyone I meet, so at the very least, I demand the same!

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Str8 couples never contact me and vice-versa, because, as my profile clearly states, I'm orally bi and prefer to play with both the female and male in mfm 3somes. I don't think I've ever rejected a bi-friendly or bi couple, but I have politely declined a few of them who didn't bother to read my profile. It was because the first thing they want to know is if I am a top or if I am a bottom. What part of "orally bi" do they not understand ? LOL

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@Aston: First of all, I love your name! I communicated with the OP outside the forums. Obviously, I taught him well. I didn't even realize it until I went back to his profile that we had communicated other than here. He has added a couple of new pics and looks really good. I promised him that when I get back north, I will hit him up. Thank you for your post as I forgot all about him...until now..LMAO!

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You have to remember that some couples think they defecate ice cream, until they go to a social setting and realize that there are other couples that are either better looking, more active, social, and engaged than they are. I reject couples quite often, especially the "black guy" fetishists. It's alot more common than you think for guys to reject couples. You will be surprised at how many couples out there are just as bad as the so called "crazy guys" that get a bad rap.

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I'm an attractive single male who is seeking a nice couple for some fun. Easy going gentleman who is fun to be with. Still seeking my first experience. Help. i do have a pic.

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IFlirt: Welcome to the LS. Couples, as we all are, are a rare breed (lol) and I say that lovingly. Frankly, I don't pursue them. I may be interested but I let them call the shots and when and if we're available at the same time, it happens, if not, so be it. I ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT base my social LS calendar on any one couple unless we have made an agreement that we are going to see each other on a regular basis. That rant you write about sounds like a childish temper tantrum. Their loss.

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Happens to everyone. Couples too, as I've been told. There's often this immediacy that leads to rabid behavior when the timing doesn't work. All you can do is be thankful that you didn't meet.

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I was contacted by a local bi couple from this site 6 months ago. I chatted and flirted (I'm bi too) with both of them via email, yahoo and phone several times over the next 2 weeks. There was definitely mutual interest and attraction. They said their work and family schedule was hectic, but that they'd call the next time their circumstances allowed it. It was left at that. I sent them several emails and texts over the next week or so just to stay in touch, but they didn't reply. I figured they'd gotten cold feet or changed their minds and I shrugged it off with no hard feelings. It wasn't the 1st time a seemingly interested couple had disappeared. Out of the blue 2 months later, she called me on a Saturday afternoon saying they were ready to play that evening and couldn't wait for me to get there. Although I was excited and happy to hear from them, I had other plans I couldn't break. I told her if she'd just called a day or two earlier, I would not have made the other plans. She launched into a tirade about how undependable I was, that I led them on, that I had played them...and on and on. He was listening via speakerphone and I could hear him cursing me as a chickensh*t emeffer. She said to never contact them again and hung up. Had they been polite, patient and understanding, we could have arranged to meet another time. I did not reject them, but in their minds, I did. Solo men are not at any couple's beckon call, but many couples think otherwise, apparently...

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PS...Having read your profile, I don't think I am telling YOU anything you don't already know, thyere are others however who could benifit bfrom both reading your profile, and my words of "wisdom"

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Orionvv9...Don't misunderstand...courteous and mutually respectful of course should be a requirement...what I am talking about if the attitude of some SM , which you need look no further than these Fora to find, that they are somehow "entitled" to all the perks and advantages of being that single guy, with none of the (dare I say it?) extra responsibilities and consideration that inherently come with it. Like it of not, you are a guest ion a couple's relationship and sexuality among tens of thousands who would go to great lengths to be there in your place, a little humility goes a long way. You can ignore that and find enablers...but personally, i don't find desperation and lack of respect for one's relationship and self esteem attractive. If the couple has standards beyond your pretty face length and girth...that is a GOOD thing.

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