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Created by: femandbicurious Original Starting post for this thread:
Have any of you as singles, found that getting to know some couples is just too much drama? I have found that many couples have their own issues within their relationship, but with me on the outside, the issues seem plain as day? Just wondering if other singles have found this in couples where you are uncomfortable the more you get to know them and the workings of their relationships? Dont want this to become bashing or negative. Dont want couples here to defend "their relationship". Just thoughts from other singles who seem to have friendships wane due to relationship problems.

Created by: femandbicurious
Original Starting post for this thread:

Have any of you as singles, found that getting to know some couples is just too much drama? I have found that many couples have their own issues within their relationship, but with me on the outside, the issues seem plain as day?

Just wondering if other singles have found this in couples where you are uncomfortable the more you get to know them and the workings of their relationships?

Dont want this to become bashing or negative. Dont want couples here to defend "their relationship". Just thoughts from other singles who seem to have friendships wane due to relationship problems.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Scotty, I am so in agreeance with you on your post from 4 days ago. When you are balancing kids, careers, family life, school, etc. etc. etc. you just dont have time for games, issues and other dumb shit. I simply have no patience for it. We get one night a week for us, IF we are able to get a babysitter. So I just don't have time for crap. LOL Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Damn Fem, I didn't know they grew them like you in Lancaster. I really miss PA.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sometimes you never know the issues until you are in the middle of it......many couples are pretty good actors. I have a good sense of people, so I can count on one hand how many turned psycho after my involvement sexually. I stay clear of those who think they can pretend well. Keeping friendships with couples is more difficult than one would think....especially when one of them is more open to me than the other. Resentments form, and as usual, I lose both as friends.
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (2416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we had a good friendship pretty much end over the drama of the other half of the couple. I'm so glad we are well balanced and know what we want. Our time is so limited with work and travel that when we have a chance to play we want to play and not have to deal with bullshit.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Amen sister! LOL Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As a couple, we have met more couples with drama than without. At the last house party we went to, I was the youngest on there, which I am assuming is why I was treated so badly by the other women there. Later that night, the female of the host couple got very upset with her husband. It was at that time we left. Have no clue why she got mad at him. We got out of there before the drama exploded and haven't spoken to them since. I can't count how many of the couples we have met are also cheating on each other. Needless to say we don't really get to play very often. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16533 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I do believe there are some single guys on here that assume that its cause the couple aint "doing it better" at home. Those guys just need to go away. But there are several on here that respect and appreciate the opportunity to join couples and have a very good sense of what their role is. But to defend some comments here..........there are couples who I know are in the lifestyle cause they just arent compatible in their bed together. Not all couples are fully aware of their reasons for being in the LS.......just that it seems like a good idea. I have witnessed couples with a multitude of reasons for playing with others........and the majority has nothing to do with the lifestyle. It has to do with inadequacies in their marriage or in their bed. As a single girl here.............couples seem to be more open with me, and with that comes the issues. Not all are blatant, some are really elusive......some are perfect for enjoying the LS. So when someone makes a comment that the couples arent doing it for each other...........it is true.........there are some on here for that exact reason.
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (2416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Single males don't need a "better chance" because we generally play more than couples.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (856 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dont reply then Gman,When single males get it that couples dont play because they lack something at home they will have a better chance.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Patogether, I'm not even going to humor such a low class remark with an answer. Back to the subject, what a lot of people don't realize is that 95% of the time in a threesome, it's all about the couple. Those of us who have been on both sides of that equation have felt it. Not that the third doesn't have a good time, but usually most of the emotional excitement and feedback takes place between the members of the couple. At least that's been my experience.
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