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TOPIC: Single_Straight_Woman_on_SLS
Created by: 241fun2013
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OK, why bother...isn't that just a woman trolling for a hookup? How is that "swinging"? I'm new to the lifestyle, and really just don't get this...

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I call B.S....single women are treated like thee HOLY GRAIL in the lifestyle. and they LOOK for couples-with a HIGH rate of success FINDING them. No sympathy from me for single women striking out!

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Well 241 ......that is the beauty of this site . It does not matter what everyone may think or prefer . I am married & hubby &I both play separate . What it comes down to is do exactly what is fun for you & what you enjoy the most . There is no right or wrong .

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Exactly how I feel... Ppl are really just looking for a free lay.. Because they are lazy otherwise .. Wouldn't be a problem but half are married with vanilla spouses

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Mrs U,

Actually by road you are about 140 miles closer. But you are sweet.

Keep those panties handy. ;)

Wenatchee WA
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"That is awesome! I have got to meet Mrs. U some day"

I'll be sure to wear panties {often times I don't}:)

PS: I have a sexy SF friend in Anchorage, if that's closer to you. {I love the networking aspect of ls}

Mrs. Uriah

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@ currentrider; I agree with everything you said. My husband and I both agree we both wasted time as kids and young adults when dating. One would think that if you are on this site that sex is a given. That you would either have a connection or not then go have sex. Since being on this site and while I am part of a couple the Mr. is ok for me to play solo as long as we both agree on the SM. We love the lifestyle and we are totally enjoying learning about it and meeting new people. For me (The Wife) if I like the SM I am going to come right out and ask "SO YOU WANT TO FUCK". The Mr. is more slow in his moves and for him he is more concerned about being respectful and reacts based on how a meet goes. If their is a warm hug, a lady grabs his hand and leans in to listen to what he is saying, looks at his lips while he is talking, he even had one girl lick her lips then look him in the eye and raise her eyebrows. He finally caught the hint. I think it's cute that even on this site that men are respectful but for me (Wife) if I like you, unless you say no I'm gonna fuck you.

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I like the interesting direction this thread has gone since the OP seemed a bit silly to me.

I spent (wasted?) my youth, dating women and making sure they knew my intentions toward them were honorable and above board, when of course I wanted to have sex with them. Sure I would have enjoyed doing other things as well. Looking back I feel like banging my head against the wall to be so clueless. The signs of interest were obvious. I'm sure many of these women were totally exasperated, wondering when I would make a move. Or just assumed that I wasn't interested.

Two (of many things) I love about the lifestyle: 1) It's taught me that many more nice ladies have a naughty side than I ever guessed, and that those two things are anything but incompatible 2) If you're dating someone in the lifestyle, you can pretty well guess, by definition, that sex is at the top of their list, if not necessarily sex with you. So I make a point of bringing it up as soon as I can. It's not like they can realistically be shocked. Instead of "Where are you from? " it's "How did you get started in the lifestyle". If there's fuel there, there's nothing like a little straight talk about sexual desires, experiences, and fantasies to provide a needed spark. Except maybe a sexy lady slipping her panties into your pocket. That is awesome! I have got to meet Mrs. U some day..

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NJ, personally I don't think that you have to do a lot of talking. You can tell interest through body language. If you are nodding and leaning forward, you are showing interest. If he moves closer, listens raptly to every word, and touches your shoulder or arm, he is interested. The interest may only be short-term -deeper interest can only be discerned over time, but there is no reason to worry about it.

Now if you just want to get the ball rolling Mrs. U's idea is great. If you are in a private place nudity works well too.

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thanks all--so a suggestion or positive comment about setting up another date could be seen as interest?

i've been doing that. sometimes tho, i wonder if the other person(s) are thinking that's just being polite.

here's the thing: if i'm not interested i won't mention meeting again. and that's what i mean by i guess i'm being too demure/too subtle. i'll work on a step somewhere in between.

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Shelly, I could not have put that any better. ;-)

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