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krby-well because sometimes when you put things out there that go against the grain (such as advocating for the single male), it's not always popular. And sometimes I can be a little too frank maybe in how I put things.

Like a few weeks ago I was writing about how, like everyone, I too have preferences but that I might make a concession if there is something of redeeming interest I like in a woman/couple that I might not otherwise be interested in and some guy (of all people!)freaked out on me and basically told me what an asshole I was, presumably because as a single male (lower than low), I'm not in a position to make concessions.

After that, I basically expect anything when I don't necessarily play along with the SM are all scumbags groupthink.

But you've been very kind about expressing your problems with us guys and illustrated your feelings with examples. So I'm not getting groupthink from you, I'm getting testimony based on personal experience.

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krby-ha! Well you just give me a chance, sweet krby and I will definitely make you reconsider the SM. I am sure Nic will too!

And thanks for not admonishing me and ripping my head off,lol. I'm sure it's coming any minute.

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LOL-whatever. I can't help but feel there is hostility and resentment against the single male for not getting bogged down into a typical marriage situation or taking control of his sex life. I mean for every crappy story about a single guy, I can imagine the same thing can be said for single females and couples.

Oh shit, here come the daggers...

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I can't imagine how frustrating it must be for single females and couples. Sorry you had to endure so many krby.

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lol@krby....maybe one day our tour buses will intersect, now that would be one helluva party!

Have fun and be safe!

;-D

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To the original poster--first of all, I would think the majority of the people are here to have fun, I don't think being in a couple necessarily gets the monopoly on having fun. There is plenty of fun to go around. Secondly, it's not that I am unsuccessful at dating, I'm just no longer interested in dating. I'm not sure I ever was, I've only recently decided to be honest with myself about it. 3, define "free pass".

There are a lot of benefits to swinging single for both parties. There is one less person that someone has to be attracted to in order for the impending situation to occur, which benefits everyone. A lot of couples have fantasies that entail only 1 other party and not couples. For a brief while I was considering getting a partner and maybe eventually I will, but I've also been advised swinging as a couple has its own obstacles.

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Krby, my fantasy is to retire, buy a tour bus and just criss cross the country looking for fun people to hang out with. Sounds like you are starting without me! lol

I hope you have better luck in other areas...perhaps traveling north a bit?

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Some couples are caught up in the old "swapper" mentality and figure a single guy has nothing to offer. I submit his wife would disagree.

;-D

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To the OP, please don't think that you have a patent on swinging just because your a couple. I, as I'm sure with most single males, do much better in the dating world. On here you find people who enjoy being meeting people, having friends and having sex with those people. That's what your here for also. If you say it's not about the "fun", your lying. The LS allows me to have "fun" without hurting someone's feelings.


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We own the largest group on SLS "Single Men Welcome Here".

It is open to single males as well as females and couples that are single male friendly. Over 14,000 members and growing fast.

Click on the "Groups" link to the left of this message and you will find us at the top of the most popular list.

~ Jen

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