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User Details are only visible to members.	Raven- This is to second your comment about drama. From time to time I will receive coy, curt, nonsensical messages from couples with "NO SINGLE MALES" plastered all over their profile. That is just a red flag for insecurity, jealousy, and performance issues. I normally just ignore the message and block the couple.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (855 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I spend the majority of my time with couples, and have my favorite. I do date single males, but if he is not accepting of swinging chances are I won't be dating him for long. I enjoy sharing single males with my couples all the time. I get request for certain ones all the time. This has been my lifestyle for over 25 years and I have no intention of changing. As far as someone complaining about single males, but indicating they want a single (bi) female, my personal preference is to avoid the majority of those couples. In my past experience, I have found too much drama exist when I get involved in that scenario so I'd rather not. RaveN ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I personally don't combine the two. Dating as a single and the lifestyle are two separate aspects I don't do at the same time. I don't swing with dates or take my lifestyle friends on dates. I guess some singles in the lifestyle do. My personal preference. shrugs PJ
Tulsa OK			Username hidden (344 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JOIN MY GROUP 'SINGLE TO GO' FOR ALL SINGLES WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO ATTEND PARTIES AND TRAVEL WITH.
Killeen TX			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok, so maybe Huck did come down a little hard on singles, but he also asked a very valid question which people ignored: "Swinging is usually defined as couples sharing themselves with other couples. So how does the single person fit in" In other words, if let's say hypothetically, marriage did not exist, and everybody was a single, then individuals would either be sexually active, or not. There would be no need to invent a new word, 'swinging'. The word swinging had to be introduced to describe those married couples who were open to having sex with others, whether it be by swapping with other couples, or hooking up with singles, or any other variant that your imagination can come up with...So if the word swinging was introduced to describe such couples, Huck wonders: what does it mean when applied to singles? I think it's a fair question. In the past I have asked the same question in a different way: What would be the difference between a "single swinger" and an unmarried individual who just happens to be sexually active, and, say, with multiple partners? I figure there are tons of singles out there who enjoy sex with more than one person. Are they thinking of themselves as "swingers"? I doubt it. So, then, what kind of behavior would imply that a single person is actually a "single swinger"? That was the question I tried to answer (my initial reply to Huck). The definition I suggested would be that a single swinger is a single person whose sexual activities involve swinging couples (of course, he or she may also be sexually active with other singles). Now, this is a definition I'm just making up, but can anybody suggest another one?
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sorry you've had bad experiences in the past, but just remember that every person is different, as is every experience. Don't judge the whole orchard just based on a few bad apples. The people who are jerks will be jerks whether they are single or part of a couple. The same goes for the good people. Being a part of the lifestyle comes with the good and the bad.
Union Grove NC			Username hidden (954 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Everyone has their own "thing" that they like. We don't like single straight males or females. Unfortunately for us we've had some bad experiences with aggresisve single males that seemed to be taking advantage of the lifestyle. We aren't in the lifestlye to play with just anybody, we have to actually know you and we have to be attracted to you in some sense. But for us, the places we've been there have been singles males approaching us ready to play and we've never seen them before, and they get upset when you politely decline the offer. So maybe we are a little bias, but if you are single and its working for you, good. Keep doing whatever you're doing and maybe teach some other singles you know some etiquette.
Columbia SC			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh hell no! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on the subject but the original post of this thread is so freakin hypocritical BS. If "swinging" is only for couples to "share themselves" with other couples, it's not really swinging is it...it's swapping. If that's the case, then there would be no such thing as a threesome, because there would have to be an even number of partners to "swing". Don't even get me started on singles "just looking for fun...and being unsuccessful at dating". Ok, then if that's the case by your reasoning, it would stand to reason that couples aren't into swinging to have fun and have to get the sexual attention they need from outside of their regular relationsip. Now granted that is obviously not the case. Regardless of what little label you try to put on yourself (couple or single), we are all in the lifestyle for the same reason. It is to meet new people and have a little fun. It doesn't make anyone any less of a person or say anything about their ability to form relationships. We are all adults, and have the right to make decisions as such, whether they are to play with couples and singles or not. What burns me is the attitude that some people take that they have a market on the lifestyle and others don't belong just because they aren't interested in them.
Union Grove NC			Username hidden (954 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	awwh.. it's ok..2 n 2, those single guys didn't want to meet that couple anyway. LOL PJ
Tulsa OK			Username hidden (344 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hun, I started swinging in the 70's. I have swung as a couple, and a single. It is a lifestyle, remember? Wanting a single bi-fem and stating no interest in single's does seem kinda contradictory. Which is it? RaveN ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

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