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I am looking for a long term partner but it's very unlikely that I would get married again. I would lose my health insurance and the highly favorable tax status accorded a widow with a child. Getting married would cost me dearly, so it would only happen if the guy were very wealthy, LOL.

If there weren't practical issues, would I consider it? I would but it isn't all that important. It wasn't really important to me the first time, either; it was his idea. :) However, I would have wanted to be married once there was a child involved.

I guess my point is that marriage is a social and legal status. Whether it carries an emotional and ethical commitment, and the nature of that commitment, depends on the people involved. It can be a powerful vehicle for two people to make a commitment to each other in a real and public manner, as well as creating a set of legal obligations. But it isn't required for a committed relationship. And there are many valid ways to construct relationships, whether the people are married or not.

If a couple wants to play only with other couples who are in committed relationships, that is a reasonable decision. I didn't feel that way when I had a partner but I understand where the viewpoint comes from. However, limiting the scope to only couples who are actually married is unnecessarily narrow.

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Hey Lane sweetie...

Everyone is human and deserves to be treated as such NO MATTER WHAT! The lifestyle is about tolerance, acceptance, trust, and communication. It is NOT a recreational weekend sport filled with intolerants as a few here so adamantly claim. IMO, it's that kind of closed minded thinking that takes away and downgrades the very best of the original lifestyle values.

RaveN (:~ An original true swinger from the late 70's who believes in the values in more than just a swinging mind set ~:)

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well everyone i been maried 3 times and all the ladies really tryed to save me, they said to make me a regular guy. i not a regular man in anyway, i am outspoken i tell it like it is. and being a bi male i shut down in this lifestyle, kist because i love to please my lover be they female or male, i always thought that swinger where open minded but i am finding they are so closed minded everyone but raven here blow me off.just my thought about life lane

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next time i make it to the west coast i'll take you up on the joy thing JB.

Personally, for me, marriage isn't a requirement. I want a partner, someone that can compliment my skills and I hers. I wanted and equal, and that's why i found. Neither of us need each other in the sense of security. We need each other emotionally. Some piece of paper isn't going to get me that.

How did this marriage discussion get started anyway?

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fucken' A jewlery. I don't need a legal contract to know i love my karen.

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Mmmmmmmmm, I have a better idea....

How about you two come massage me down with oil and to hell with the e-mails... *mischievous grin*

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Crickets..... What can I say? LMAO!

sensuoustexasraven XXX 11-Oct-07 11:26 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, Couples have more privys than singles hun, always have. You are a couple's profile not a single male's so that makes no sense. Would you like for me to ask Tech support or Customer Service to contact you on why your profile can't have private pics hun? They can help you get one up if there is a problem. XXX sensuoustexasraven 11-Oct-07 11:17 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, That might work for gals, but not guys..I have tried it sensuoustexasraven XXX 11-Oct-07 11:06 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, All free members get 1 private. XXX sensuoustexasraven 11-Oct-07 10:53 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, I can't as I am a free member, sensuoustexasraven XXX 11-Oct-07 10:45 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, So why not post pictures here under privates and grant me access? XXX sensuoustexasraven 11-Oct-07 10:41 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, We are play partners, not a couple, so if full or swop makes sense, or fmf , then we play together, but we are not a "couple" per se. Would be happy to share a photo if you have email Regards XXX sensuoustexasraven XXX 11-Oct-07 10:19 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, Hi XXX, You are correct that the movie was Rocky Horror, but the song was sung mainly by Janet Weiss.... I use here to send e-mails and view current pictures as stated in my e-mail. I rarely give out my contact info until I am ready to take it to a different level. Your partner would have to approve of everything in advance so I would not encounter any issues. Let me know when your pics are posted. RaveN (:~ XXX sensuoustexasraven 11-Oct-07 10:07 AM [EST] Subject: I think it was the Rocky Horror Show,,,,,, Hello there Raven, how are you today ? Would love to chat, do you Yahoo by any chance ? My ID is the same as here Regards XXX

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Raven, my baby! LOL I know its bad when someone as sweet as you are is pissed off!! Point me at em baby, and Scotty and I will go slash their tires...you KNOW Scotty is good for it lol. I hate that too......I had one that said they wanted to see if WE were good looking enough for THEM....and no pics. Thank you, come again! Shelly

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Why do couples with no pics write us single fems and think we are gonna jump to give them our e-mail addys just so we can see their pics?

Geesh! How many e-mails a day must I answer saying:

NO! POST THEM HERE AND GIVE ME ACCESS IF YOU PUT THEM UNDER PRIVATES!

Would save themselves the trouble of an e-mail if they would just read the damn profile! I've only answered that to 6 e-mails this morning and haven't been logged on but half an hour.

Thanks! Needed to vent! back to our regularly scheduled program.

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akron,

at the tiem of said sleep depravation, I had been out that friday until 4am, got up and 830 am to take some people out on the boat until 5 that afternoon, then out with a couple saturday night until 3am, then a party on sunday and monday, picked up the wife at the airport 1am on tuesday. I was beat.

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