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With that body I believe anything you say.

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What happens when you meet someone you have fun with and want to hang out with and be play partners with.... would others consider them as a couple or just two singles?"

We have played with one couple where they are not legally married. To us it honestly is cool if 2 singles want to "team up" so to speak so long as neither is a cheating married person. Our only issue with singles at all is the fact that we both like to play...so if my friend has a hot single lady who is interested and they are cool people we would have no issues with not playing with them. Again though, if one is married and the other is the "other man/woman" that is a no go with us.

"And why does it seem so terribly one sided? Single women are more than ok but single men should be cast out and cut off? "

Well because most of the couples/ladies here are bisexual and are here for another woman to be brought into the mix. Also the demand for single women is so much higher than the supply vs. with single men the supply is much higher than the demand for them.

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Well said sista!!! Look, as a single whatever I completely agree and I think couples who are able to live the lifestyle and have a successful and happy marriage should be commended. It puts the relationship on a much more solid foundation and not to mention that you guys sure are fun as hell to play with. My question is this..(and forgive me I am a newbie and am learning the ropes) What happens when you meet someone you have fun with and want to hang out with and be play partners with.... would others consider them as a couple or just two singles? And why does it seem so terribly one sided? Single women are more than ok but single men should be cast out and cut off? I guess one has to consider your statement about 100% attention and go from there but it just seems unfair. Poor single guys ........ they need a nut too :)

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Yes Ms. Erica as Jewel said you hit it dead on. We say that alot too.....okay I understand that you will play with me and we'd have fun I'm sure...........but what is Jay to do, have sex with Rosie and her 4 sisters? LOL. Sorry but this is why we rarely do 3somes. As a matter of fact the last time we did any MFM action was June 9th of last year at a house party. Jay likes getting boinked well by a woman like I do with a man, its as simply put as that. And in an MFM no matter how much I want to try, multi tasking is not giving him 100% of my attention like a play partner or just myself does. He is like me, he wants the whole enchilada. Damn, we're greedy! LOL

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ok now that is sounding more interesting. sensory type playing fine, not into pain sort of girl. Although I do like a bit of a spanking with someones hand on occasion ;) Grooma curries make great massage tools.

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{{{{{{makes note to hide the shed blades when dolf comes to town}}}}}}

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"Fuck. Erica "

I hope to.

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well Dolf i have to say, that if you meet a girl and can't be satisfied with her only then swinging isn't going to make you happy, you'll always have broken relationships.

We enjoy the lifestyle, but if either of us ever wanted to quit that would be it. I wouldn't give up karen for a lifestyle.

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"So how does the single person fit in. It seems to me that their just looking for some "fun" and have been unsuccessful at dating. So they get in this lifestyle to get a free pass."

I know speaking for myself while I'm not looking for a free pass, I am looking for fun whether I end up having some type of physical relationship with anyone or not. I would assume whether single or a part of a couple, fun and exploring your sexuality and new ways to do so are a big part of why anyone is here.

Speaking as a single though, I see tons of couples profiles avoiding certain kinds of singles or other couples because they are either preference or are just trying to avoid drama or other generally awkward or bad situations from interfering with their recreational time. While I don't have a laundry list of people I try to avoid there are certain things I look to avoid such as someone becoming overly attached to me, or having a shift in their original intent that leads to what was a good situation into something uncomfortable and awkward .

An example being finding a single female who you've explained outright to that this is a recreational friendship, that while we can respect each other, enjoy time together both in the bedroom and out, I have no intentions of pursuing a committed relationship or be responsible to your expectations of me. She then explains to me that those are her intentions as well yet a few weeks into it, my cell phone starts blowing up on a daily basis wanting attention and time from me that I either don't have for them, or need for myself to do other things.

I don't mean to sound callous or insensitive, and while I know explaining my intentions up front I have kept my side of the street clean, it's still not a good feeling to know you're going to have to hurt somebody and feel like you are slamming the door in their face because their original intent has changed and yours has not. People and relationships change and I know it's often not their fault, however, this is something I know I most likely wouldn't have to deal with by getting involved with a couple who wants the company of a single male in their sex life, or even just socially.

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chell.

He you've seen me naked, tell JR it's not so tramatizing.

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