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Not at all! Same here! LOL!

Panama City Beach FL
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"I don’t mind what they call me, as long as they don’t call me late for din­ner”

Or sex!

Agreed. Forget semantics and dictionary definitions, all I want to do is enjoy myself with like minded, sexy people. Is that so wrong?

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I guess I’m just old fashioned. LOL! I just don’t see anything wrong with the traditional definitions of the words “swinger” and “swinging”. What’s it called when you have a MFM or FMF? We call it a threesome. What do we call the odd girl or guy? We call them… girl or guy. I don’t know, I sometimes think people view swinging as a hip club or something and they aren’t happy unless they are members, so definitions of words change over time to suite people needs. It’s like the whole bisexual definition debate. If singles want to call themselves swingers, then go for it because at the end of the day it's irrelevent. It's just sex.

The bottom line is that couple swapping, threesomes, and more-somes have been going on since the beginning of time and it’s always been about recreational sex. There is no swingers club with merit badges or anything else, but tradition does have a role in defining words in my opinion. Arguing over simple definitions and semantics has never made much sense to me. Of course, some people can even agree as to what “sex” is, right, Slick Willy?!? LMAO!

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"I just hope I end up with a swinger male"

Ahem.....AHEM!!!

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Poland OH
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I'll tell ya it all depends on the chemistry with people, having me as a unicorn can be fun but I often enjoy mixing it up and bring that sexy single guy to play with a couple or two! It's about getting excited and clicking. I've lived some erotic fantasies through swinging and I love it, I just hope I end up with a swinger male, cause I dont know if I could let go. But I agree there are no swingers 101 classes lol, dont be pushy, rude, arrogant, dont beat on your chest in other words! lol

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"...how can you be a "single swinger"?"

Simple. Engage in erotic activities with like minded singles and couples. Think of it this way, swingers are essentially pursuing a hedonistic lifestyle which is defined as "Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses."

So if a single guy joins a couple for mutual pleasure of the senses, is he not swinging? Unless your definition of swinging is stuck in the "wife-swapping" days, we are all swingers because we all enjoy this lifestyle.

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I question where huck gets this definition of swinging from. There is no set standard or rule book for swinging, most of the time is opinion, then others buy into it and say it's fact. Yes there is an etiquette to swinging, generally respect each other, no is no, and be friendly. But as for hard set rules established by some swinging organization, it doesn't exist. The other thing if huck holds that to be true, then there should be no singles in swinging at all both single men or single women and everyone would only be looking for couples with a bi fem and no singles involved. Lighten up, swinging is for anyone that can be social, friendly and know how to be fun and enjoy sex without the confines of how sex is supposed to be. There are no regulations to swinging, just people having fun and enjoying each other.

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Funny thing, I went and looked at the profile for the OP and lo and behold, the FIRST line is Looking for a bi woman that wants to be with me and wife,, Ok,, SO I GOTTA ASK.. Are you looking for a SINGLE FEMALE to join you or do you figure your gonna get with a couple and have her join you two?

Spring TX
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you're right trying to get four people that are compatable with eachother is the tough part.. Sometimes it just doesn't happen.

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we do the same, we play with other couples together or sometimes we play separately (or rather I have, but if he ever wants to that is fine too) specially if we run across a couple where I really like the guy but he doesn't care for the lady or vise versa I also had a single male playmate for a while that I played with alone or if everyones schedule clicked in a MFM with my husband.

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