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jenn ,welcome to the forums. in the forums their is a section for profile review, you should post there as well for additional feedback.

my feedback, FWIW: holy negativity, batman! your tagline has GOT to go. say something fun, quirky amusing, interesting...but if your tagline stays the same you're basically turning people off before they even click to open and read the rest of your profile.

the rest of your profile isn't too bad. as pirate girl advises, you should fill it in a bit more. if you want FFM as a single male, well...dunno how you're going to achieve that with a couple unless your bring your own F Playmate to a date with a couple. try putting in one or two other, different, scenarios that pique your interest.

finally, one of your photos looks like a screen shot with text running across the bottom. either ditch that and substitute something else, or edit that picture so that it doesn't look so much like a screenshot, and so the text is gone.

good luck.

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Blt I am willing to bet everything ,that the sm are not single but married males playing games, and those other single males whom have sf to play with. every event that I attend the same shit happens, couples the male that is says the same thing we are not interested but the female is, then they go on to complain they cannot find sm to play with. I will never understand the bs. so I leave thanking the host, and then call up my fav lady to play. So my whole point is you do not want to have anything to do with me as a single male no problem ,I just call up my fav local escort. who will play. HER gain there lose. My to cents worth.

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There seems to be some kind of disconnect going on. I hear from SF's how they make dates with SM only to be stood up so what the fuck is up with that? SF are not immune from this as far as being a "no show." Why waste people's time and don't even call to cancel so that in the event people can make other arrangements. You only have to do it to me once and I am done.

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"Why is it so hard for single guys to get started? "

From the perspective of the female part of a couple who when we were actively playing were SM friendly, ditch the negative tag line, fill out your profile better, tell more about you, what your into etc the only thing you mention is FFM which quite honestly if your looking for that you would have better luck in bars. There is a section on the profile for profile advice use it and build a profile that attracts interest.

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Jenn, welcome to the forums. This is a common question because it's a common problem. Here's what I can tell you from a couple's perspective. Be patient. Find a local party and go, without expectations. Don't try to force anything, just be available and let it come to you. Opportunities will come along, but keep in mind, you are wandering into the twilight zone here. One of the most challenging things on the planet is figuring out what women want. Best way to keep your sanity here is to forget about figuring it out. It changes from woman to woman and day to day. Instead, just be yourself, and when the "you" they see is what they want, they will let you know.

Also, you will find many successful single males here in the forums, so hanging in here once in a while can definitely help you work on your approach. This lifestyle can be a lot of fun, but it requires a LOT of patience as well.

Good luck, have fun.

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Why is it so hard for single guys to get started?

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hey bro, drop this down to the "Better Profiles" section and you'll get the feedback you're looking for.

Orlando FL
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If only that were true...............

Vero Beach FL
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"I cannot believe this has "finally" happened! Mrs. Sav and I agree. "

Scratching that off my bucket list will allow me to sleep so much better at night.

Mrs Sav

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I cannot believe this has "finally" happened! Mrs. Sav and I agree. Your post re Yzman has a high five from me. I never thought I would see the day. Kisses, with all due respect, Mrs. Sav....LOL

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