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User Details are only visible to members.	maybe my future man. ---------------- Um, this ain't Eharmony...LOL One thing I keep in the back of my mind in is this "it's another man's wife!" and "it's just sex." I know the single F/single M world does happen occasionally, but even then, I gotta keep it "just sex" and have a good time. Connections might happen, but it's not in my prerequisites...Just sayin.
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Totally UNETHICAL. If you have a wife (or husband) you are a couple NOT single. The majority of these creeps are only here to fuck around on their wives (or husbands). You are not a swinger if your wife (or husband) doesn't know, you are a cheating creep. If your wife knows and participates, that is a party. This just happened to me today: a swinger friend wanted me to meet a friend of his who really wanted to meet me. This guy was a gorgeous hard body hung sweet Marine. HELL YES!!! as a single nymphet woman, i am in heaven. We flirt, exchange pictures and i think i met a single freak like me, maybe my future man. Then i find out he is Married and Wife doesn't know. Just because i am a single female swinger doesn't mean i fuck every cock that wants me.. no no no I fuck the cocks i want. Being single also means i am still looking for that someone special. See the problem with this lie.
La Jolla CA			Username hidden (22 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"but it made me pause" You answered you own question. If her not being up front gave you pause, imagine the reaction to a single male being deceptive. Females tend to get a free pass, guys are assumed to be hiding something. My advice, be totally honest and when you are contacted, you have nothing to explain. Changing your profile to hide the fact you are married may get you more initial contacts but I would guess you would not get a second email once you told the truth.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I recently emailed a lady on SLS who listed herself as single. She replied with a message that she is married, but they both play separately. She even referred me to their couples profile, and they're a lovely couple, but it made me pause. I, too, am married, but we both play separately as well, and have singles and a couples profile, but on my single profile, I describe my open marriage very openly. Now, based on how view emails I receive, and also how few responses I get to emails I send, I wonder if my situation is scaring off some women? Should I state I'm single in my profile, like that lady did, and only fess up to my situation after getting a response? Or would this be unethical? I certainly don't want to come off as less than honest.
Kingsport TN			Username hidden (150 post)

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