Power of the Cert: Swingers Discussion 203422

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TOPIC: Power of the Cert

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User Details are only visible to members.	But Yourlvrman...."obviously you are self-conscious and feel the need for validation." ....said people who can't get anyone to publicly admit they know them
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Secondly, profiles are not static. They are always changing..." True, or in my case several regular playmates have found what they wanted and deleted their profile completely. Of course the certs are deleted along with the profiles.
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12140 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Of the certs we have, no one has gotten a divorce, no one was cheating on tgheir spoouse, no one had a sex change operation,no one moved to Utah and became Mormon missionaries, thus those who chose to leave us Certs, still appear on our profile
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Over time as profiles evolve, the certs may need some editing. I once had a cert from a married couple. When I received an email from the husband indicating he was playing as a single male yet keeping his couple profile because his wife had left, I said no and removed the cert. They divorced and deleted their profile eventually, but it got very unpleasant and I wanted no future association with the matter.
Canton MS			Username hidden (2764 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Secondly, profiles are not static. They are always changing. Who's to say that the profile from the people who met and certed you a year ago has the same information today as it did a year ago?" I completely agree with this!
Windermere FL			Username hidden (2518 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	'we use certs to see what type of people they normally get along with ( birds of a feather)' This is exactly why we don't accept certs. We want people to want to meet us because they like US, not because they like/dislike people who've certed us. Secondly, profiles are not static. They are always changing. Who's to say that the profile from the people who met and certed you a year ago has the same information today as it did a year ago? I'd be a hyprocrite to say that I don't read other's certs but it's not for us.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (929 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Soph' I guess it's like reading a review on yelp, the only way to know for sure is to find out for yourself. We don't use certs to see if as person swings or not or if the are good in bed or not, we use certs to see what type of people they normally get along with ( birds of a feather).
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have a question that maybe someone can answer about the 'power of the cert'. If you own a party venue, not talking about a house party, but a business entity that holds regular parties at more than one location each week and the certs on your SLS profile all talk about the great parties you hold at your swing party venue, not in your home or one on one swapping encounters with other couples, SM, or SFs, does that cert really matter? (Take a big breath, now that you read that long question). I mean, they are basically certing your ability to throw a party that you do for business purposes not for the pleasure of swinging with another couple or small group. Does that make you a real swinger? Or a coordinator of swinging activities? What are they certing, your party coordinating abilities or your swinging abilities? Furthermore, if the comments on your swing business websites are from the same people who certed your SLS profile, and when I say same I mean word for word, which one is real and which one if fake? I mean did they cut and past the same words on each site? Or are they really talented to say the exact same thing on two sites without writing it out and copying it to the other one? The SLS profile is, from what I assumed for SM, SF, and Couples, not an advertising mechanism for your business. Isn't it kinda false advertising of your swinging abilities and realness when in a situation like this the line between work and pleasure blurs so one cannot tell if they are impressed with your business or with you personally? Would this not make you a fake? That you could not come up with anyone to cert you that played with you outside the business you run? Did you actually play with these people or offer them a discount on a membership to post certs and comments on both places? When demanding that certs be authentic and be related to what they are intended, isn't it dishonest to assert something in a manner that confuses people as to what is real and what is fake? That line between lying and telling the truth becomes rather blurred in cases such as this. I guess I had more than one question to ask. I am curious if the answers can be presented in an articulate manner without anger, rantings, and hate-filled speech. Sophia
Hendersonville NC			Username hidden (593 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As you can clearly see PP I'm not blocked at all, you do not have the power to alter my forum viewing . You can continue to be a coward and hit behind your block but everyone and I mean everyone knows you read and comment I every single post I make. NO big deal to me but rather embarrassing for you . Mrs SAv
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4109 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Blocked stalkers especially don't matter :)
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

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TOPIC: Power of the Cert