NO SINGLE MEN!: Swingers Discussion 1636581028

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User Details are only visible to members.	I'll throw in my 2 cents... I think one of the reasons that you see it so much is that when new couples start looking thru other people's profiles here, they see it over and over and over again, decide there must be good reason and POOF ~ it's in their profiles. It's not based on experience. There ARE a lot of single guys that have no idea what the lifestyle is about. They see it as easy NSA sex and the possibility of a lot of it. Nothing more. Those guys make it tough for the guys that DO understand what it's all about. We're single guy friendly ~ granted, we enjoy couples more ~ but the amount of stupid emails that we get from single guys is ridiculous. I can understand why newer couples just throw up their hands and say "NO SINGLE MEN!" The process of finding a cool single guy is a tough one. IMO, much harder than finding a cool couple and almost as hard as finding a single chic. There are just too many guys that expect that b/c a couple swings, they are going to fuck anyone that's interested. That's just not the case. Or they think that they are going to do the wife/girlfriend w/ minimal involvement from the husband/boyfriend. Or that it's going to be all about them. When I look for single guys, I look for interesting profiles that indicate that the head that's doing the thinking is above the shoulders, some kind of knowledge of what the life is about and good pictures. There really aren't that many profiles that meet those requirements. There are plenty of threads here on forums (and plenty of tag lines on profiles) complaining that single guys aren't getting any response. My first thought is always ~ take a look at your profile, then take a look at the emails that you're sending out. Most single guys profiles offer a minimal amount of information and most emails amount to "Hi. Sexy pics. Wanna meet?" (And that's the tame version.) Single guys have a horrible reputation for not showing up. It's not a problem that we've had, but we hear enough stories to know it to be true. I think that goes back to not understanding the lifestyle. It's all fine and well and good to fantasize about, but when it becomes a reality, they aren't up for it. And the fact is that there are a good number of husbands/boyfriends that lack the confidence to share their partner w/ another man w/o another woman there. Inviting a single woman in is fine, but the dymanic (if both men are straight) is different and not something that they've entertained in their life long fantasies. It's an ego thing. A lot of women here are bi, so it's nice to have another woman in the play mix. Like I said ~ we are single guy friendly, but it's just not where my preference lies. When we single guys that I think would be fun contact us, I make note of it and when that's what I want, I'll get in touch. I hope I've shed a little light on the topic for you.
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