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There is a couple I see where we sometimes play together and occasionally, just her and I meet. Once when it was just the two of us, he asked me to take pictures and text them to him. Obviously she was aware of what I was doing and was also turned on by the thought of him seeing pics of us together so I had no problem complying and think it's pretty hot. We all agreed we want to do more of that. Here is my dilemma. Recently he asked me to secretly video tape her and I together, and by secretly, I mean not tell HER. When I asked if he would show her the tape, he was evasive. So, should I tell him I am not comfortable taping her without her knowledge and consent or, based on her excitement when we took the pics, go along knowing he will probably show her the tape? I think she would be ok with it if she knew but he wants there to be that "secret" aspect to it. Any thoughts?

Created by: NicAtNight
Original Starting post for this thread:

There is a couple I see where we sometimes play together and occasionally, just her and I meet. Once when it was just the two of us, he asked me to take pictures and text them to him. Obviously she was aware of what I was doing and was also turned on by the thought of him seeing pics of us together so I had no problem complying and think it's pretty hot. We all agreed we want to do more of that. 

Here is my dilemma. Recently he asked me to secretly video tape her and I together, and by secretly,  I mean not tell HER. When I asked if he would show her the tape, he was evasive.

So, should I tell him I am not comfortable taping her without her knowledge and consent or, based on her excitement when we took the pics, go along knowing he will probably show her the tape? I think she would be ok with it if she knew but he wants there to be that "secret" aspect to it.

Any thoughts?

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Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Really bad idea for anything to be done secretively if both are in the swinging scene. If they are married they should not be doing secretive activities and if single worst as he can try to blackmail her and claim that you did the taping without his knowledge and then gave it to him. I would not touch this with a ten foot pole and might even rethink whether I would want to continue meeting.
Miramar FL			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is a little surprising to me the number of couples that enjoy this scenario. And no, not complaining one bit! ;-D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	wow, what a situation you have there.
Edmond OK			Username hidden (1190 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Loving that bootie there Ms. Lost! lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	loving that 5:00 shadow you are sporting in that picture, Mr. Nic
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks Tim, it turned out we never pursued it but it came up in conversation that he had told her I might video her and she was all for it. Instead, we continued to meet and take pics that I would text to him, they both loved that!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Run.. far, far away
Edmond OK			Username hidden (1190 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it is very immoral and, even worse, it is a serious crime and very punishable by law. When you're with someone, you have a reasonable expectation of privacy if you are not in a public setting. You can be sued for this and it's just not very nice, even if the guy claims his girl would be okay with it. Don't go there.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you sweetie! I am always perving yours and LOVE the new pics. BTW, I opened a couple more galleries. ;-D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

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