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Tom, there are lots of open-minded single women out there, but the ones who join this site immediately get inundated with emails from couples, men, and other women. They don't have enough days in the week to meet, much less play with, any more than a small fraction of their suitors. But good luck.

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wow¬° I must be really screwing this up. lol I will keep trying until I get it right.

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Ditto to Entirely's comment.

"Swinging is a couples sport" is a hoax that was started years ago by a small minority of coupled men. New sexual partners could only be obtained if there was something that they could trade (i.e., their wife) in exchange for something else (i.e., someone else's wife). This converts women to chattel and ignores their equal right to additional sexual partners.

Fortunately, "swinging is a couples sport" has now been largely discredited, and recreational sex is available to all. This is why there is such an incredible demand for we single males.

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Why can't you find a swinging partner? It's simple. There is no benefit for the woman whatsoever.

If you are open to a relationship, it's possible to find a like-minded girlfriend. If you are a great guy and persevere, you can eventually make female friends who will accompany you to a given party on occasion.

But single women can go anywhere they want. We don't need escorts and we can easily get a date if we want a date.

There is no benefit for a woman in hooking up with you as a regular swing partner unless she is married and cheating and prefers to have a partner in crime.

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Reading through these comments I really haven't learn how to go about getting a partner. What I do know it would be a lot more fun to have one. Most places I go the husband is not really that open to me joining there party. I guess I will just keep trying. So if there is a lady out in Tucson, AZ. Look me me up and lets talk and see where it go's.

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*looks like the picture of innocence*

TakeIt I have no idea what you mean....

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Cayne when you post pics like that YOU KNOW what it does to me !! lol.. and im at work right now, and picturing myself right behind you in that position is making it hard to focus!

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"All you get out of this lifestyle is what you put in."

Very true!

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From one SM to another, I feel your pain man. But these ladies are merely trying to tell you that all you have to do is put a little more effort into the site before you can get the rewards.

Email, IM, network, send pics, arrange meetings, join groups or just meet ladies at clubs. All you get out of this lifestyle is what you put in. Just seems like maybe you aren't trying hard enough? Give the ladies a lil more to work with.

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Well Tom (who ever you are lol) obviously the guy who started this post. Some single gals don't want or need swing partners, you see we get invited to parties and m&gs etc. and can walk in alone. I had a sm approach me last nite, he said to me I should consider hooking up with him as a swing partner. He said it would be easier for me to meet couples this way. I laughed cause I don't even know this guy for one thing. I turned to him and said, "Where have you been hun? " he looked puzzled until I said, "Single guys find it easier to meet couples if they are with a partner. Single gals don't have those issues hun."

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