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User Details are only visible to members.	To the OP--I understand completely the idea of only seeking a relationship with a swinger. IF and when I decide that I actually want to be in a relationship (don't hold your breath lol), I will only seek single male playmates. If I were you, I would NOT try to convert a vanilla into the lifestyle just to have a swinging relationship. Way too much drama to encounter and besides, why wouldn't you want a woman who is already in the lifestyle by her own choice? Through my experiences, you get what you seek by how you word your profile. Switch it up from time to time if you aren't getting what you seek. Be extremely clear in your desires as from your posts, it sounds like you don't even want to swing right now. …?? I certainly wouldn't try the swing clubs to find a potential relationship or this website. I think getting out there and swinging as a single guy will open more doors than you think it will. Don’t be in such a hurry…..swinging as a single can be extremely satisfying too. I've met plenty of single males who have a female playmate back up for foursomes or more…as do I have single males that oblige me lol. If it’s foursome activity you seek, sounds like, why not approach it from that angle?
St George UT			Username hidden (2113 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"The single women in the Lifestyle can be categorized into 2 groups: (1) "Professionals" who enjoy playing single and avoiding the drama of the couple swap scene, and (2)those who, like you, are looking for a partner. My personal experience is that the latter tend to be very needy and potentially unstable. Of course, they are out there, and you just need to find them." Damn it, Uriah! LOL!! I was on a break being a "free" member but now I'm tempted to answer you. It's all your fault LoL! I am in complete agreement with the above statement of yours. Count me in as a "professional". Although I recently added one line to my profile simply stating that I am open to the idea of a relationship, I also defined it very clearly lol.....
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User Details are only visible to members.	Like I said- "Of course, they are out there, and you just need to find them."
Memphis TN			Username hidden (855 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My experience is that there is a big demand for single males who are fit, attractive, sexually skilled, and have the ability to maintain an adequate emotional disattachment. A common term for us is "professional". However, single males who are looking for a relationship are potentially threats to coupled males, who are not real interested in having their wives playing with a man who is looking for a partner. The single women in the Lifestyle can be categorized into 2 groups: (1) "Professionals" who enjoy playing single and avoiding the drama of the couple swap scene, and (2)those who, like you, are looking for a partner. My personal experience is that the latter tend to be very needy and potentially unstable. Of course, they are out there, and you just need to find them.
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