Hard Being Single Male Here: Swingers Discussion 1527921031

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User Details are only visible to members.	Another observation...I think single guys "assume" that we should get equal access to all that is swinging. This simply is an unreaListic expectation. From a purists perspective, swinging began as a couples lifestyle and most of what occurs (clubs,private parties,3sums and more-sums) is not single male friendly. The perception of "hard" may actually be not understanding the swinging climate. There are contexts where single males are welcomed with open legs...when we 1) Act with class 2) perform well 3) respect the limits and boundaries of others 4) and don't act like kids in a candy store, we are sometimes fortunate to become friends and more with ladies and couples and welcomed into their circle.
Rockville MD			Username hidden (615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sure he isnt a closet cross dresser? Hey that can be fun in some ways ;)
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I will register this one observation.... Yes, I AM a single guy. I also party with a few great ladies that want to experience the 'swing party' atmosphere as a couple. This means that I want to look at events and profiles that are couple oriented. I can't, the way SLS is set up. My lady friends can, and then they send to me...and I STILL can't read the profiles or events! This really is somewhat annoying. Of course to 'fix' this I opened a couple profile. The problem I see is that I don't have one 'regular' partner in this so I have to be vague in the profile, which does NOTHING to showcase our own sparkling personalities! :D I for one dislike deception in this lifestyle and I dislike having to resort to this mild deception in order to use this site. As a PAYING member it annoys me a bit more to be honest. I think it would be better to create a 'filtered mailbox' that a member could assign all male emails to-like spam. That's my .02 'Cynthia'
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	K, Ringmaster wrote to us and commented about our lack of affinity to men named Cynthia. I responded to him as Cynthia and we've been having fun verbally josting ever since. He's seems so cute we may scratch the no-males-named-Cynthia from our avoidance list. ~ Jen
Moosic PA			Username hidden (1020 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	From my observation..you're as hot swinging as you are vanilla from a single male perspective. In other words, if it is/ was tough getting laid vanilla..all bets are pretty much off here too. I've been swinging for over a decade and have never experienced the "hard time" but know some that have. Couples and females can find average or typical guys in a star bucks. What raises their eyebrows or makes them contemplate being with you over others? Until you know it, talk like it and walk like it..hard times ahead bro..
Rockville MD			Username hidden (615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What are you sticking and to whom? * wiggles eyebrows and looks at Jen :)
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lmfao....I can see this gag may actually STICK.....
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	G'night Cynthia
Moosic PA			Username hidden (1020 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	G'night John boy.... :D
Floral Park NY			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi K ;-)
Moosic PA			Username hidden (1020 post)

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