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The club is not gay , just some who enter it :P

The club is uber busy this time of year. No party dates are scheduled for a few months :(

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That is going to be a while :(

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Ohhhh so you hang out at Trumans huh :)

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That picture sure beats the phone companies picture of " Reach out and touch someone!" Very nice Jen !

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Holy shit Maybe, now thats a picture! Rock on with your bad self!!!!

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You forgot being conceited . That is a major factor.

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Another observation...I think single guys "assume" that we should get equal access to all that is swinging. This simply is an unreaListic expectation. From a purists perspective, swinging began as a couples lifestyle and most of what occurs (clubs,private parties,3sums and more-sums) is not single male friendly. The perception of "hard" may actually be not understanding the swinging climate.

There are contexts where single males are welcomed with open legs...when we 1) Act with class 2) perform well 3) respect the limits and boundaries of others 4) and don't act like kids in a candy store, we are sometimes fortunate to become friends and more with ladies and couples and welcomed into their circle.

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Sure he isnt a closet cross dresser? Hey that can be fun in some ways ;)

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K,

Ringmaster wrote to us and commented about our lack of affinity to men named Cynthia. I responded to him as Cynthia and we've been having fun verbally josting ever since. He's seems so cute we may scratch the no-males-named-Cynthia from our avoidance list.

~ Jen

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From my observation..you're as hot swinging as you are vanilla from a single male perspective. In other words, if it is/ was tough getting laid vanilla..all bets are pretty much off here too. I've been swinging for over a decade and have never experienced the "hard time" but know some that have.

Couples and females can find average or typical guys in a star bucks. What raises their eyebrows or makes them contemplate being with you over others? Until you know it, talk like it and walk like it..hard times ahead bro..

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