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TOPIC: Guide for meeting single women for single men
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Here's an oldie but goodie with some pretty good tips from some interesting women.

Mrs. U.

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Well here's a general guide for how not to approach women here. Oh and they just signed up today? The profile has two sentences in it. No picture. Hmm - maybe I should refer them to Craigslist.

"I and a co-worker are coming to glendale ca apr 7-10 from the east coast we have daily business seminars but a night? we want you to be our ultra sexy cali hostess for nightly adventures i'm new to this site pics in a day or so i'm 6'2" short brown hair , blue/green eyes, thin/athletic, funny, big smile, long , hard. looking forward to hearing from you."

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A whole lot of great information, and a lot of things I've tried to say but couldn't find the words.

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Mercedess331,

Welcum sexy lady to the forums. Damn, got me another virgin poster.

The married men who are playing with his spouses permission are usually much more respectful and the younger singles men have much to learn. I would just ignore or block the less respectful ones and keep yourself open to those who are more desirable. I would limit my contacts with members until you have a feel for their disposition. By that I mean keeping it to a few PC's or e-mails until you feel comfy. Meeting you is a privilege and if they hint at being rude, there are sooo many others to play with on here that are sweet and respectful. After all, we know in the end, the sex is everyone's main objective.

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I am posting here because something in Mercedes' post caught my eye.

I am contacted by single males from time to time who want to help me play with my friends. I have a rule that I must meet single males in person for a beer to see if they qualify to join my club. Invariably, I get a comment like, "If we meet, and you like me, can we go see some of your friends and have sex with them?" Usually, the SM comes up with some bogus excuse as to why he can't meet me for a beer, then continues to contact me online to ask if he can join me for sex with my friends. My response is always "Sorry, but we have not gotten the required meeting in person out of the way first!".

What is the underlying erroneous premise of the foregoing comments? It assumes that I make the decision as to who plays with my swing friends. To the contrary, it is my swing friends who makes the decision who plays with them. Is this not basic common sense?

There is an incredible demand for fit, experienced, intelligent, clean, personable single males. There is very little demand for fat, inexperienced, stupid, dirty, socially clumsy single males.

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I like that I can pick up males and females just to fuck. If a friendship comes out of it, then it is a bonus, but I meet to fuck. I also love being treated with respect. Vanilla guys just do not understand why I avoid the emotional aspect of a relationship. They feel rejected if I enjoy them and then move on to the next. They have a hard time with the concept of variety. Someday, I will meet someone and the sparks will fly and they will leave me breathless on an emotional level, but until then, I wanna play!

I get tons of offers off SLS and I have to say: Guys that are original, confident, humorous, intelligent, polite, sweet, flirty, and read my profile are the ones meeting me for fun. I hate for a guy to write "wanna fuck?" cause that is a stupid question and shows no intelligence. Nahhhhh, I placed my profile on here cause I want someone to wash my car!

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Well said Wolf!

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alex has a good point, which explains my lack of success. Some of us are not any good at the bar scenes. I have to admit up front, I have had no success establishing a relationship with a couple from this site. I have met a few single women. Like Alex said, treat them with respect, get to know them, learn about some of the things that are on their mind, then you will eventually get to meet the lady in real life. If that meeting is a success, the physical enjoyment comes naturally.

As far as the bar scene, I'm 50 and still hopeless there, lol. But then, I guess I have a similar perspective. If the lady isn't bright enough to see my virtues, do I really want her in my bed?

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Wel the women that I have met in REAL life think that I am a perv when I tell them mi intrest

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