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I don't know if this is a "complaint" or a "great time", so I'll post it hear since it's kind of funny.

Had the great pleasure of visiting with a new and super couple recently and they had a pair or Jack Russell terriers running around the rooms. They were nice and docile when nothing was going on, but I found whenever I slapped my lovely hostess on her rump, the dogs would do two things:

1) start barking like crazy 2) and then growlingly attack each other for like a 5-10 second fight

So, we are all in the same room together and after about the 3rd slap, I was like "Hey, can these guys please go to another room and watch TV or something?" Not only were they distracting to the point affecting hydraulic power, but I was afraid that I was going to re-enact that classic Jack Russell scene from that movie, "Beethoven", if you know what I mean.

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I have been in the LS for several years, and been hitting the party scene hard for the last four years, and it has been pretty wild! The best party I've been to so far was a hotel party in Charlotte last summer. I played with five sexy ladies in one night, and there were still more that wanted to play! The action started early and didn't stop until the sun came up the next morning! I've gotten to play with some really beautiful women that have done some of the wildest and most unbelieveable things sexually. If I had any advice for success as a single guy in the LS is to be straight-up and truthful about who you are, be a gentleman, and don't be pushy. This is easier said than done as there are a lot of dudes who lie, are pushy, and are disrespectful in the LS. Granted, my years in the LS have been up and down, but when it's up it's wild, and it's some of the best fun you can have!

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Well yeah, there's that.

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I have done ok ,as a single, but i must say this, Where you live, how you dress, your looks and age has lot to do with ,wether you suseced in the life style. or have issues with couples and other singles.

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I have been a single male for 10 years, and part of a couple for 1 year.

By far, I have been much more active as a single male, fucking on the average 3-5 different women a week. I don't contact women or couples; they contact me. Good looking, fit, personable men who understand social dynamics are in big demand.

On the other hand, the drama started when my partner and I started playing as a couple. You name it---coupled men who refuse to wear condoms, catty women who are jealous of my lady, inferior men who are intimidated by me and try to meet with her separately, drunks, "couples only" parties attended by fat impotent men, psychotic Free Members here on SLS who are obsessed with and stalk us, etc. The positive aspects of playing as a single male conflict with the negative aspects of playing as a couple like night and day.

Fortunately, my partner and I have more fun just playing by ourselves than either one of us have ever had in the Lifestyle. This makes us very, very selective as to who else we are willing to play with, and we like it.

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I have been on SLS for 7 years. I started out (by recommendation of a couple) in '04 after attending a hotel party. Within my first 3 weeks, I had met a couple and a single female. The good times just kept rolling. Then I started listening to everyone else. When parties and meet N greets were couples only, I would let people pair me up with a single female, which was cool. Well I kept listening to folks, saying I should be a couple, so I did. It was 2 years I regret. Nothing against her, but it wasn't who I felt I wanted, but went along with because of the notion of you get more responses and have more fun as a couple. Well I took some time off, and now back again as a single and enjoy it! I have reconnected with some old friends, and made some new ones as well. I have a wealth of experience to build on and share with others.

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I appreciate the kind words. I had been hoping to get back to Austin for a visit, and I recall San Marcos being nearby.

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nmanno...how can you not have fun here? I cannot see your face...but from your profile it is apparent that you take pride in yourself, you dress well, you have a great body...and you have very good mastery of the english language. Women like myself, we find a man like that to be quite erotic and sexual. And that is the kind of man that I want to fuck.

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See that Nic, we told you back in the beginning there had to be some good experiences.

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Great idea for a topic.

Many great experiences, but things did start slow. Fortunately, I met up with an unbelievable woman and her very supportive husband. We actually met on another site, but she followed me over here. Starting from scratch here was a little difficult, but her certification definitely helped. She was also nice enough to mention me to the good couples she met on her own. In the last several months, I've put together a great little group of single/married ladies and couples that I see every so often (separately, LOL). We have great chemistry, similar interests, and find each other fun to be with in and out of the bedroom. Starting off can be frustrating, but put some effort into your profile, set up casual meetings, chat with people, and eventually you'll punch that little hole in the dam. Once you've done that, just continue to be a positive SLS member and you'll be surprised that some of the ladies and couples you would have had to contact in the past are now contacting you. The old saying that the best advertising is word-of-mouth holds true here as well.

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