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TOPIC: Good Intro Email

Created by: geeklove Original Starting post for this thread:
I'm pretty good at intro emails with profiles that have their profile filled out enough to comment on, but what about those that don't. What's a good intro?

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User Details are only visible to members.	I just got another stupid one liner email... "where do I send the application"... I usually just ignore these or send out a quick "No thank you" reply I have set up, but I couldn't stand it. I sent back "A well written email and a photo would have been a good start". You don't have to have a degree in journalism to introduce yourself or to write more than one line in your profile.
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In all honesty, just be yourself and PAY ATTENTION to peoples profiles. Many have interesting things to say, and more often than not, idiots overlook the important details which proves you're only in it for sex. And seasoned couples will pick up on that right away. I greet everyone the same way as if I would approach someone in public/etc.. Lastly, just be genuinely you. I've always done that, and its gotten me very far in the lifestyle. Not only do people appreciate that, but your true intentions come up right away: if your looking for just sex and nothing more, your demeanor will show. And lies can't cover that up. Best wishes to your endeavors.
Milford CT			Username hidden (42 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well i tried long detailed mails. Its not that i have always done one liners! But after sometime when no one replies came up, over time mails became shorter!
Garland TX			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hell_storm2004, welcome to the fora! Now, I can tell you, with your one liners, you will not get anywhere. One liners don't turn me on at all. I perceive them as an expression of sender's laziness. If the sender is too lazy to even tell me, WHY should be enticed to meet them, it makes me think they are lazy about everything else... Including the bedroom. Of course, not everyone is into long, detailed e-mails like me. But most people do want to see something original, something, that makes them want to learn more about you. Me - I want to learn A LOT about you. But that's just me. My attraction starts in the mind. So, not only one liners are automatic disqualification. The generic copy and paste e-mails, especially the ones where I am called a couple (!!!), get a "No, thank you" from me. But hey, I do respond! Please, for your own sake, don't assume anything... Including your assumption that no one responds, so it is not worth writing a personal, thoughtful introductory message. So to speak, you get what you pay for. If you are not willing to invest some of your time and thought to make connections here, your return will indeed be minimal, if any. Your profile is actually good; use it to your advantage! And have fun, while doing so. :)
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1933 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well normally i just put in one small line! Can we meet? Or something on those lines. Only go for a detailed intro, after i get a reply, because what's the point of typing a giant mail when you know people on the other side either wont read them or wont reply.
Garland TX			Username hidden (70 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Geeklove and any other successful SMs out there: Please share your knowledge on how to write a good intro email to a couple. After complaining on here about not getting any emails from SMs we were bombarded by them last week. Unfortunately most went unresponded as they showed they hadn't read our profile. Stuff like "Wow! Just Wow!" and "Sexy Lady" and "Let's meet up". The best one was a blank email - no subject or body - with a picture of the guys torso attached (No public pics and a total of three lines to his profile). He had a very nice body but I can see sexy torsos in a GQ magazine. We ARE interested in meeting local SMs but after culling through countless profiles, most have a total of 5 lines and/or have no public pictures in their profile. And as I mentioned above, the emails we do get from SMs can only be considered a joke.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (911 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	best advice i can give you is address both partys in your email and keep it respectful. I hate emails from single guys who act like they only need to whoo mrs. naughty to get in her pants. by the 3rd email if it gets that far i usually block.
Delta PA			Username hidden (124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	geeklove, welcome to the forums! My first thought was, what would make you want to write people, whose profiles are lacking any relevant information? I guess, if they have some very nice pictures, you might be interested in writing, but from my experience, people with blank profiles will have hardly any pictures. It is called laziness. No effort to write something to catch people's attention usually pairs with lack of pictures. That will not generate my interest. I hope you are not sending mass e-mails to everyone. Single guys have it hard enough, lots of profiles are hidden from them from the start. And it is because of some guys that just don't get it. Sure, if you can relate your introductory message to something in the profile, do so! But if there is nothing to talk about... What is your interest? I guess, if you really want to contact someone with nothing in their profile, you have to keep it very generic, but still polite, confident, but not pushy. However, considering that the profile owners are too lazy to properly fill it out, they might be too lazy to respond to you. Just sayin'... Your best bet would be to get out to a local Meet & Greet, if any in your area. Get to know a few people, In person, profile and pictures don't matter. Get certified, you don't have to have sex in order to get certified. Just be real. Be yourself. And honestly, try not to email people too much. Do not come across as desperate. This is supposed to be fun. Nobody likes desperate whiners. If you can think of it as just a fun, occasional distraction from your everyday life, it just might become that and more :) Most of all, be patient, do not take anything personally, and just try to have fun with this. Good luck!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1933 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why would you send a message to a blank profile?
Memphis TN			Username hidden (855 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm pretty good at intro emails with profiles that have their profile filled out enough to comment on, but what about those that don't. What's a good intro?
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (1 post)

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