Finding a new partner in life who also wants to swing: Swingers Discussion 1773531031

155
Finding a new partner in life who also wants to swing: Swingers Discussion 1773531031

Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

TOPIC: Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)

GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4

Start

31 to 35 of 35

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm a veteran swinger (my late husband and I were swingers the whole time we were together) and I'm definitely interested in finding a like-minded long term partner. I have a number of girlfriends who have found a guy in the lifestyle and started relationships. Even a single woman who doesn't necessarily seek this will probably be open to it if she really likes you and you don't want to tie her down too much. Keep looking, keep networking, keep meeting people. There's no reason not to go at it from both directions: look among swingers for women who want to date and look on vanilla sites for women open to the possibility. Just don't settle for a vanilla woman. It won't last. P.S. If you lived closer to me I'd be knocking on your door.
Springfield VA			Username hidden (262 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@miss Jewel Thanx
Lansing MI			Username hidden (145 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I had the same desire to find a relationship with a single woman also into swinging several years ago, and I finally came to the conclusion that it wasn't going to happen as long as that was my intention. I think that with men it is easy to justify starting a relationship with someone who swings because men, by nature, feel more connected to women we share interests and activities with. In 45 years I haven't seen evidence that women see things the same way. In fact, I've seen that if a man and woman share the same activities at the beginning of their relationship it puts the man in the friend zone. Even when that activity is swinging and they play together, the woman often does not let the relationship move past what they do together and into a place where they share more than they would with other friends of the opposite sex. I hate to say it, but if you are looking for a girlfriend that would join you in swinging, it would be best to look on regular dating sites and look for phrases like "very open minded", "like public displays of affection", or "adventurous" in combination with "No game players", "don't tolerate cheaters and don't cheat". There are other things to look for, but those are biggies. As far as swinger sites, they are good for meeting people and single women especially that just want to play around, but don't get your hopes up when it comes to taking things further than sex. It is really hard for a single man to get a single woman's attention on a swinger site because it is too easy for single people, not just single women, to have sex if they don't take things too seriously. When you are looking for a relationship men tend to get really serious because ... well I can't say because women will also read this and I've gotten in trouble for giving away too many of our secrets. LOL I better stop now.
Lansing MI			Username hidden (145 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Single females have a wonderful time in the lifestyle, once seeing that perhaps many are not looking to tie themselves to someone who wants a relationship,,usually then the female looses her ability to play alone, enjoy the lifestyle as she did before, and single females dont need a partner here,, so many choose to stay free of those who want to restrain them.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I get that much of this lifestyle revolves around SEX. . . I mean, without the sexual aspect, it's just going out with friends. While I love sex as much as the next guy (or gal), I would REALLY Love to find a partner-- something permanent... not someone just so I can get in the door at the local sex club or go to parties with. I'm on 'normal' dating sites, and I'm up front an honest about non-monogamy, but I swear, 95% of the email I get from women is just to tell me how great I am... except for that swinging thing... Is there a good place to meet SINGLE SWINGERS who are looking for a relationship and not just a great roll in the hay?
Centralia WA			Username hidden (9 post)

GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4

Start

31 to 35 of 35

TOPIC: Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)