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Ok, gives me hope while waiting for the Golden Ticket, lol.

Norcross GA
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Still struggling with the idea of giving up the LS for a Vanilla relationship. The few dates I've been on just aren't as open minded. Great women but I'm just not sure if I'll feel something missing.

Does this make me selfish or just honest with myself.

Robert

Norcross GA
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I agree with you NJ...my thoughts on vanilla dating sites is way worse than "pfftt..." I'd laugh, but only so I don't cry. I also agree...live life. However, work takes up a good deal of my life at the moment, so in living life, I don't often meet eligible people in my age group. And, in living life, doing things with all my coupled up friends OR alone is getting old.

So, tonight, I updated my profile here to indicate I'm looking for more than the average bear...err...swinger. lol. We'll see how that goes. Can't say I'm particularly hopeful, considering the IM's I've already gotten, but hey...can't be much worse than the POFs of the world.

Dover PA
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Life - LOL. Maybe!

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D you hit it on the money! You're the perfect example of how to find a great partner in the lifestyle. Tiffany do wish you lived on my street lol. To the author of this post. As a single guy in the lifestyle it's very hard. So many guys just think this is a hookup site. Dating sites suck as you found out. I have met some of the happiest and best people of my life in the lifestyle. No jealousy! Think we all just want to find that perfect swing partner to travel, go to events and parties and still go on the good old vanilla dates with. WHERE ARE YOU !!! LOL. ( D my grammar and spelling ok?)

Las Vegas NV
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my assessment of the dating sites wasn't as kind as "pffft" ;-)

everyone approaches swinging and the "lifestyle" differently. there's no one, "true swinging" methodology or approach or practice, whatever terminology one wants to use.

there are as many different approaches as there are humans. we're all unique,and so, too, is how we think about this here little hobby.

as for finding a partner who is compatible ~ the odds are stacked no matter where or how.

live your life, enjoy, have fun as and where you can. in my own experience when i least expect something or someone wonderful....that's when it has happened.

:-)

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I have been on dating sites. Pft. Useless.

I think the true unicorn is finding a single to bond with. The odds are so stacked against singles finding a LTR while in the LS. So, I don't try.

My ideal is a bunch of small houses on the same street where my single lovers and I live. Yes, I make it sound like life revolves around me, but the street can have other single F's living on it for the boys to play with. We all live alone, but aren't alone. Make sense?

I do have 1 lover who is very special to me emotionally. And I him. But that's it for now. And that's ok. Either we'll get to experience more together or not. It's life. And until then, we're having fun with and without each other, LOL. Just like if we get more time together.

Binghamton NY
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Lady I approve that message. Enjoying life!

Norcross GA
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@Robert: be patient, the right one (or 2 or 3 or.....) will "cum" along. In the mean time, enjoy! Lot's of fun to be had!

~lady~

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I'm in the same boat. I prefer long term relationships and I also want to enjoy the LS. I'm on vanilla dating sites but it feels like a lost cause because of my LS interests.

Maybe I should just look for a potential long term partner here.

Robert

Norcross GA
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