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TOPIC: Finding_a_new_partner_in_life_(who_also_wants_to_swing)
Created by: double_entendre
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I get that much of this lifestyle revolves around SEX. . . I mean, without the sexual aspect, it's just going out with friends.

While I love sex as much as the next guy (or gal), I would REALLY Love to find a partner-- something permanent... not someone just so I can get in the door at the local sex club or go to parties with.

I'm on 'normal' dating sites, and I'm up front an honest about non-monogamy, but I swear, 95% of the email I get from women is just to tell me how great I am... except for that swinging thing...

Is there a good place to meet SINGLE SWINGERS who are looking for a relationship and not just a great roll in the hay?

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Lady I approve that message. Enjoying life!

Norcross GA
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@Robert: be patient, the right one (or 2 or 3 or.....) will "cum" along. In the mean time, enjoy! Lot's of fun to be had!

~lady~

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I'm in the same boat. I prefer long term relationships and I also want to enjoy the LS. I'm on vanilla dating sites but it feels like a lost cause because of my LS interests.

Maybe I should just look for a potential long term partner here.

Robert

Norcross GA
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I'm in the same boat...prefer someone special in my life, but don't want to give up the freedom and fun of the ls. I won't settle for vanilla again, but would consider "ls-lite" with the right person - meaning, we still attend events, clubs, hang w/swinger friends, etc.

most SM here only seem to want NSA - not even FWB, though I admit to limited experience (been on here awhile, but was very limited in meeting people early on). Since moving, I've been getting out and more involved, which is great.

Loved the idea someone had here about a sub-category for singles looking for a ls-relationship.

PS...njnybifemme....tried to drop you a line just to say hi and check in, but your profile is blocked is SF now. Hope all's well!

Dover PA
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Got to say, my experience reflects exactly what @njnybiwfemme said. Still, It doesn't hurt to be in touch with websites and venues where people are known to be into the same sorts of things as one's self.

Knightdale NC
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Jslillian, 'hedo' hedonism II, an All inclusive resort that is clothing optional and swinger friendly. I'm there to party naked with my friends. if swinging doesn't happen, I'm not going to cry, I'm there for the fun with wonderful friends. If I find *that* guy here, great. If not, great. However, going to hedonism when it's in the budget is a make or break for me. I love the relaxing vibe and the fun I have.

Harrisburg PA
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imo, and in my experience, joining any website with hopes or expectations (however one wants to express those thoughts) of any specific experience or type of person...is a recipe for disappointment.

in life, and what is this little habit/penchant but a slice of life overall?--again imo and in my experience---it's only when i haven't been "looking" (or even been sorta convinced i didn't want or need something) that those experiences or people came in to my life.

this is not to discourage anyone from looking (or even having hopes or expectations). more to say, hang in there, have fun when and as you are able, and approach the people met here with skeptical optimism.

life hands is gifts when we are least expecting and usually always in oddly mysterious (and wonderful!) ways.

good luck, ladies.

Bridgewater NJ
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magjoy what is HEDO?

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I would definitely love to find someone, but I think it's a needle in a haystack. I'd settle for someone of the vanilla persuasion who would go to hedo with me. Hedo is definitely a deal breaker for me.

Harrisburg PA
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Lady_Tramp you got it right. I feel more secure in a LTR. I love having someone there for the little things, just love having adventure in my sex life.

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