Swingers are a small part of our society. So it's going to be difficult to find it. Thats why i always ask couples that i deal with if they "both" are into this or is it just the hubby pushing her into it. I feel better when she is totally into it. But often men are just trying to fulfill his fantasy and the wife just plays along. So when you find that one that is really "into" the lifestyle it will be a beautiful thing. Trust me from my experiences with women that fully enjoy the lifestyle. They are out there. Keep looking.

Im a widower.My long gone wife got me deep into bi swinging. Now Im looking for a female in the sexual gulag called Utah!If you have ever had fantasies or participated in swing with bi guys.If you live in Utah.And you are a horny swinging female.I want to hear from you.Message me with your dirtiest bi guy fantasy.Maybe,together we can make it come true

I am looking for a female that love the lifestyle,i afraid of craiglist, there a lot of nice people here but to find a woman that is able to go to a party house with you is so hard to do. still looking

I'm right here!!! :D

Phillip: don't know how other peeps feel about this but....the overuse of shagg and shagged IMO is a bit of a turnoff to me.

sensuality, eroticism, adult terms would serve you better. again, JMO, others may vary.

Yeah it's tough to find a FWB to shagged and have fun with if your single, I know from personal eXperience. You just have to keep it up and try a little harder! I wish I had a female that loved shagging anywhere or anytime myself FWB. There's nothing more toward your insecurity than to go into a seX club or event by yourself. Well, its all in your head dude. Clear your cobwebs. Get out of your head! But I would love to find a FWB to shagg regularly...

I say go ahead and renew njny, this site while has its undesirables does have a lot of really nice like minded people.

my membership here's up for renewal soon. still debating what to do.

in zero hurry to couple up again. it would be nice to find stable folks for FWB. i figure that'll hapoen with time. in the meanwhile there is plenty to keep me busy.

As a widower, while I am not really seeking a partner, I am definitely interested in such a partner and would welcome her into my life. I think her being into swinging, nudity, and bi men would be close to being requirements for me in a new partner.

njnybiwfemme, I agree with you about the site, which is why I am a lifetime member.

Snowman, I would tell them on the first meeting about the LS. If they didn't like it then they could go hunt somewhere else. I knew that the LS would be part of me with or without them. Most was interested in knowing about the LS cause the ladies want to play as much as the guys do.