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TOPIC: Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
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Having been the male half of a hotwife couple who swung together with men for the pure excitement and naughty thrill of it earlier in my life and now being a solo bi male, I can say that I much prefer swinging with a woman I love as my "partner in crime" to going it alone. Being older, single and and bi (orally only) is a triple whammy when trying to meet couples and women with whom to swing. My 2nd marriage was to a very prudish vanilla wife and I shall never make that mistake again LOL I've found it very difficult to meet a new female significant other with any interest in exploring "the wild side" with me but I will keep trying! The upside and main reward of solo swinging is the freedom to pursue it with no guilt or shame.

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I am looking for 2 things in life...some one who rides a Harley and likes to have a good time....whi is that so hard to do???

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Welcome to the forum hoyclassywoman.

I am quite sure it gets tiring weeding through the fakes, flakes and married guys but a beautiful, articulate, sexy lady such as yourself will have her pick of playmates. It may take some time to find "the one" to be the perfect partner in crime but in the mean time, enjoy the journey...

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lol .. hotclassywoman .. you just started. ;-)

Livermore CA
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I am finding it nearly impossible! ALmost futile

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Single Guy here looking too. Honestly.. I don't care if the woman wants to Swing. If the bedroom stays HOT .. well .. what else do you want? I will say though that I have friends in the LS and hopefuly she doesn't have issues with that. Swingers are just plain fun and love their attitudes toward sex. Vanilla friends are fun too just don't go flirting with the wife or you're not their friend! Life's short ..sooo don't spend too much time chasing a pipe dream... but have fun dreaming.

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I agree with a couple of you in that I have had WAY better luck over the long term by recruiting from the Nilla ranks... I've corrupted a half dozen or more...

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I agree with the people who say to find someone first and then break them into the idea.... First get to know them... If yu are clicking sexually, then there is a chance she has the same sexual appetite that you do and will, overtime, like the idea

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I agree with Michelle, I have been in two "swing" relationships and they both started with dating women who I found were a bit adventurous and we progressed to swinging. I have met some single ladies on here who I could form a LTR with but distance is an issue. I guess what I am saying is, I keep all of my options open including dating "vanilla" women who like it a little kinky or maybe meeting someone from here.

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The question here is HOW a single swinger male can find a female swinger for a swinging permanent relationship. Are we on the same page?

Well my suggestion is that if I were a single swinger male I'd try everything... however, have you ever thought of finding a hot non-swinger woman and then introducing her to the lifestyle? You are making a mistake in saying up front that you are a swinger and want a swinger female. Many of my swinging female friends were unsuspecting dating a guy who was a swinger and once they were comfortable with each other the guy smoothly introduced her to swinging... I do not consider this deception... simply because once a woman gets a taste of the lifestyle she will simply love it and embrace it with great ardor... If she does not, then you move on to someone else.

This advice may sound 'crude' but try it and you will see some very great results. Contrary to what many guys think, we women love sex and the lifestyle and when we discover it we go after it with far greater passion than most guys... Also if your girlfriend is not bisexual she will soon discover the infinite joys of bisexuality in the lifestyle and will LOVE you for introducing her to such a hot and delectable love life... So it's a win/win game!

Michelle

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