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I understand what you're saying biodoc, and I think that I know the forum posters whom you are referring to (at least I believe that I do) , but....

Remember, while this couple met as singles in the LS, neither were wanting (or trying) to avoid the proverbial *role in the hay* or *one night stand*. To the contrary, these were committed swingers who met and developed into something more.

My question to the OP is really targeted towards my genuine curiousity as to whether or not the OP has an interest in the casual, NSA sex that traditional swingers engage in.

No strong opinions on it either way, just curious.

Tramp

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We were actually just having a conversation about this with a SM friend that we met in the lifestyle. He is looking for a partner to share day to day life with, but doesn't want to give up swinging. He said it is hard work trying to establish a strong one on one relationship while maintaining an open relationship or incorporating swinging while still getting to know a new (long term potential) partner. But, as OP experienced, if he goes into a vanilla partnership, it is hard to introduce her to his desire for an open/swing relationship later, without getting dropped like a hot potato. I know at least one pair of frequent forum posters met and stayed in the lifestyle. Are there others? Does anyone have experience of stepping out of the lifestyle but only dating people with lifestyle experience, then stepping back in as a pair when the one on one bond is stable? Any resources or dating sites I can point our friend to?

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Welcome to the forums jslillian. Can I ask a question of you?

I found your post to make three references that I found interesting, at least in the manner that you used them; they are:

1) seeking a relationship

2) not a role in the hay, and

3) incorporatung the LS (I'm assuming) into this relationship.

Here's my question:

Should you find the relationship that you're looking for, would you then want that new partnership to be active as swingers?

I'm just curious due to the phrasing that you used.

Again, welcome to the forums.

Tramp

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I wish you success in your search @jslillian ! :) I still have hope for mine.

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So glad I found this post! I am looking for a relationship, not just a roll in the hay. Never works on a reg site when you bring up the topic of this lifestyle. Makes me feel a little better knowing I'm not alone in my search

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Say it isn't so!

Tramp

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"Yeah, and I'll wager the damn name of Fun_Ahoy will too. Lol"

According to a recent Gallup survey of hotwife couples, Fun_Ahoy had a name recognition of 92%. Unfortunately, the favorability rate was in single digits.

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Yeah, and I'll wager the damn name of Fun_Ahoy will too. Lol

Tramp

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"First if you think this is a "Kinky" Lifestyle.. you will not succeed."

Ask a few random people on the street for their reaction to a husband watching his wife fuck another man, and I'll bet "kinky" gets mentioned a few times.

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I like your idea, @beegeeme, I would click it as well!

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