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TOPIC: Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
Created by: double_entendre
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Snowman72 I see no point in revealing your LS pref. on a vanilla site. Like anything else, it takes time to make the right connection. One of the issues I with SM is that many are overly anxious thinking they're walking into a fuckfest when they enter the LS. It doesn't happen usually.

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I have found on normal dating sites is once they find out I'm in the lifestyle they want it immediately judge me calling me names and trash . What they don't know is I'm not stupid and use my safety gear and very careful as most of the singles and couples I've played with are . Here is the funny part I went to a house part once and run into 3 ladies that claim to be vanilla on these dating sites all up in this party so it proved they lied to me lol . I to would like to find someone lifestyle friendly but that's a hard thing to do so I figure I'll be single a very long time .

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bcgolf: Will do. As for the cert, well deserved and all sincere.

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Ms BLT,

Please keep me in your referals list ...... and I do thank you, very much, for your cert ( Snoopy Dancing!!).

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well I do WANT a relationship, but I just don't require one of a partner FWB is enough if the emphasis is placed on friendship... I guess my point was vanilla dating sites are not a good place to find someone lifestyle friendly and this site is not great if you are looking for someone to date... which its not really designed for so I don't have issue with that... It was just nice to see that I am not the only one in this predicament lol

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From reading it, I take that she seeks a life-style friendly partner with whom she can enjoy a friends with benefits type of relationship without the emotional commitment of a committed relationship.

True, like BLT says...you could probably find plenty of SM willing to be a play-date partner to get into clubs and parties with but apparently haven't met one that you feel any type of connection or enough chemistry with that bears repeating. Just a thought, if you made friends with other females in the lifestyle, it could open additional avenues of meeting other men. But if you are happy as is....then continue what you are doing and just have fun!

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Ok, so your profile is blocked to single women. Good luck!

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Sinfulsecrets: I am very surprised by your post. I haven't gone to your profile but I did glimpse at your pic. All you have to do is go out with one SM that you like which is easy and believe me, in most cases he would be super happy to have a woman who wants to swing with him. Then he can get into all the clubs and parties w/o being hassled to pay high fees. Maybe I am missing something.

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I am in the same boat.. I enjoy playing with a partner. I am on a few dating sites where I put in my profile that I am looking for someone lifestyle friendly. My emails are few and far between but usually are people who let me know I am a disease ridden whore only worth having sex with and they want to date someone more respectable... lol here I put that I want a partner and get emails telling me to go to a dating site... catch 22 but I have discovered the difference between a swinger and a whore and a manwhore.. ask them how many partners they have had... a swinger may or may not know but will realize it doesnt matter. everyone else will think of the answer, decide if they should tell the truth and either feel shame or pride... its not about the numbers its about the experiences.

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Hello Cheops210!

Hope you find what you seek.

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