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TOPIC: Exposure for the Single Guys

Created by: PJay Original Starting post for this thread:
I would think the single guys who are genuinely interested in finding nice couples to hook up with here on the site would want to take a little time off sending emails and put themselves out there a bit more, if you will The Forums here are a great venue for couples to get to know each other. Of course, the exposure is limited, but surely it wouldn't hurt to be around a bit participating allowing other potential couples the opportunity of seeing your personality and interests on a regular basis as an interested prospect. Let's preface this by saying complaining about the lack of response (or pussy) or the Political Forum might not be the best approach LOL Just a thought.. Has anybody noticed receiving more emails after posting in the Forums? PJ

Created by: PJay
Original Starting post for this thread:

I would think the single guys who are genuinely interested in finding nice couples to hook up with here on the site would want to take a little time off sending emails and put themselves out there a bit more, if you will

The Forums here are a great venue for couples to get to know each other.  Of course, the exposure is limited, but surely it wouldn't hurt to be around a bit participating allowing other potential couples the opportunity of seeing your personality and interests on  a regular basis as an interested prospect.

Let's preface this by saying complaining about the lack of response (or pussy) or the Political Forum might not be the best approach LOL

Just a thought.. Has anybody noticed receiving more emails after posting in the Forums?

PJ

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User Details are only visible to members.	I have a different take on this... while I agree that "exposure" is beneficial and is a stepping stone to showing that you are "real" and have some LS experience, I notice that it's increasingly difficult in my area (NYC Metro area)to find solo ladies or cpls that are interested in another gentleman. I think that's due to "supply and demand" based on the high population in this part of the country. There's just more "Guys" looking, and a lot of them on SLS have free memberships and are fakes. So, naturally cpls shy away. I have the opportunity to travel on occasion, and find that it's easier to chat with others when I''m not in NYC. Just an observation.
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User Details are only visible to members.	There is a lot of value to sharing your viewpoint on the forums. I have made contact with several couples because of conversations that have been on the various threads. It is a great way to get to know everyone.
Indianapolis IN			Username hidden (251 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Interesting, I have been posting here in various forums, and I haven't seen an increase in emails. I attribute this to my location being so far from so many. I have done the email thing and have only gotten 1 answer that was not looking for guys right now, which I took graciously and thanked the couple for responding. Not sure if it's my profile, or what, but I generally like to be social so I do post in forums and chat in the chat arena. Hope everyone has fun in their endevers to find fun.
Palm Beach Gardens FL			Username hidden (188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we would like to see if you wanna xpose
Chicago IL			Username hidden (16 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Pjay, I have noticed a large increase in emails from couples since I began posting in these forums, and that was purely accidental, and didn’t realize it at the time. Matter of fact, the couple I met with 2 weeks ago said to me that they never would have noticed me if they weren’t gazing thru the forums, we ended up having a fantastic night, they’ve never posted in the forums as of yet, but do read them. When a couple contacts me I usually give access to my private photos right away if I like theirs, I do have my wife with me in a few of my private photos cause we do play as a couple a lot of times also, funny thing is they always say, wow, does your wife want to join us also. That usually comes from the woman half. So the answer is a definite yes on do you get more emails from posting in the forums, like the other poster on here said, I’m sure having a profile with photos helps, you can’t expect emails if you have a couple one liners and no photos in your profile no matter how much you post in the forums.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2093 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PJ- A few of the cross country swing friends that I have made (they either come see me or I go see them) have come from Forum contacts. The majority have come from referral and association. The main point that you are making merits repeating, however. A single male (or anyone, for that matter) cannot rely on anonymous cyber communication to make friends. You have to go to clubs, associate with others, make and maintain a good reputation, and do the other things to confirm to all that you are a functional swinger.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (857 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi PJay...We enjoy meeting single men. If they pass our test. The Forums have Nothing to do with it. I don't believe the Forums have anything to do with meeting anyone. Just one opinion. -Tig
Lake In The Hills IL			Username hidden (2349 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would think the single guys who are genuinely interested in finding nice couples to hook up with here on the site would want to take a little time off sending emails and put themselves out there a bit more, if you will The Forums here are a great venue for couples to get to know each other. Of course, the exposure is limited, but surely it wouldn't hurt to be around a bit participating allowing other potential couples the opportunity of seeing your personality and interests on a regular basis as an interested prospect. Let's preface this by saying complaining about the lack of response (or pussy) or the Political Forum might not be the best approach LOL Just a thought.. Has anybody noticed receiving more emails after posting in the Forums? PJ
Tulsa OK			Username hidden (344 post)

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