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Nicatnight, I've updated profile now check it out and let me know what you think.

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Will any of the couples you used to see with your SO cert you? If not, attend a M&G and maybe chat some people up there. Getting out in the world and letting people know you are real is a good start. Hell, even just being here in the forums may generate some emails for you.

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Thanks nicatnight, however I'm not able to post pics because I am on my cell phone and dont know how to but as far as the rest goes I can fix.

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Welcome Latinoheat6969401.

You have been on the site as a single for what, 5 days?

You asked for advice, start with this. Add some pics, correct the spelling at the end of your profile and most importantly, remember how it was as a couple. What type of SMs did you and your SO seek out? Be THAT guy.

Oh and your profile is so focused on finding a SF to be a couple with, most couples will view you as someone biding his time until he finds her and will dismiss you as not a good prospect for anything long term.

Good luck and have fun!

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Why is it so hard to meet couples or single women as a single male? I've been in this lifstyle for around 8 years and when I was with my ex wife it was easy to met people but know that I'm single couples and single women treat me like I'm just some weirdo. I am very respectful and I try to be a gentlemen but nothing seems to get anyone's attention. Any suggestions...

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This is a response to the OP: Try a bit of patience man...Rome wasn't built in a day. As far as going to clubs....as a single male I see no need to do that. The only time I've gone to clubs, I've either been with a single lady or went with a couple. I don't find the need to drop $50-$100 jut to walk in the door. I do just fine without it.

Just remember: You gotta crawl before you walk.

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I'm older thus slightly heavier, I was born 6,935 days earlier!

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You two have matching heights and weights Poly! Is he your twin? ;-)

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great post i feel the same way

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I'm glad that Mers decided to upload great photos of himself. You're a great looking guy! don't be frustrated, be patient, I promise it will happen :).

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