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TOPIC: Being a single male in the lifestyle
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Very, very true...

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I just wanted to say that I received two unsolicited messages today from couples that would like to get together soon.....and I'm pretty happy about it. Being over 50 is not a death sentence. Having a rotten, entitled attitude is.

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I love pickles, the harder the better !

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Not sure about a pickle, but I have lots of plans for him ;).

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Jax,

I am sure you will get yourself in a pickle ;)

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Just for the record you can not determine the success of others based on your personal failures......no offense intended. Each gentleman will have varying degrees of success based on how well he has kept in shape, his overall presentation , how well he communicates, his profile , his certs, his activities and more importantly his personality and his attitude just to name a few key things women look for. If you by chance mean the chances of the 30 and under crowd I'd assume that's to be expected as one ages but bear in mind we are all aging and not all of us has a taste for young men. The fact that for all appearances (your forums posting) that you have been unsuccessful means very little. I personally know several gentleman over the age of 50 who are very active, very desired and quite happy with what the lifestyle offers them.

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You out of all people need not worry Jax. I have plans for you, whether you call yourself a swinger or a cucumber ;)

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The facts? LOL Promiscuity and swinging CAN be the same thing but are NOT ALWAYS. I also did NOT say ALL singles were merely promiscuous and not "true" swingers . Get a grip dude. You classify swingers your way and I will classify them based on my beliefs and perceptions. A cheater is Not a swinger nor is any single who upon entering a "relationship" has no desire to engage in swinging practices with said partner. Swinging is an attitude not an simply an action.

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Bingo Mrs. Sav,

We have an example of it in the fora right now. ;)

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"Well look at this,,,websters definition of a swinger"one who engages Freely in promiscuous SEX" No where does it specifiy singles or couples. Now my friends do you think of that. "

I'd say it is not swinging ,merely promiscuous sex unless a single has the desire to also share his partner should they find one. Many times, specifically for single men once they find "love" they have zero desire in sharing their woman, although that probably won't prevent them from sneaking around and calling it swinging. At it's core swinging is more about "swapping" partners than merely promiscuous sex . It is utilized to enhance a relationship and play out fantasies between couples. That man include adding singles to the mix. If said single upon becoming involved in a relationship had no desire to share their new partner with others I wouldn't consider them "swingers" merely players. For the record I don't particularly care what others refer to themselves as but the word swinger is not all encompassing for promiscuous sex. For another example , cheaters are not swingers. As to Webster's definition I'd say it was defined by a non swinger who was oblivious to the philosophy of swinging .

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