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TOPIC: Being a single male in the lifestyle
Created by: meremsar
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Granted the whole concept behind swinging is having a partner; but what about those periods between relationships? How then do you, as a single male, find a woman who is in the lifestyle? It's not as if you can ask any woman "do you swing?" Even with sex being a more open topic of discussion now, it isn't a subject that can be approached lightly. To further the difficulty, you are now practically shunned from all of the groups/clubs you once attended. Or asked for exceptionally high donations which wouldn't be necessary if a more thorough screening were employed. There are easy ways to discern who is there for a quick lay, and who is truly involved in the lifestyle. As far as getting "certified" on this site; I don't need your authentication as to who I am and living up to my word. If I say I will or won't do something, write it in stone. I'm not here to hook up, I want to find a partner already involved in the lifestyle. I thought this would be a good place to start. Looks like I was wrong.

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The tank is full...which is also a problem sometimes.

BT

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Shelly, Thanks for the reality check. Yes, I would expect Rabbit and Scamp to add to the mischief and general hilarity! Good thing I'm a tough old bird.

BT, "compliment fishing" ?? You need more? (I've read your certs.) OK, I'll say your profile is a very good read, and you have two of the qualities I truly appreciate - intelligence and wit. Is that enough praise to tide you over for a while? (Giggle.)

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"Scamp and Rabbit will act as chaperones. LOL."

That's akin to a pair of foxes guarding the henhouse.

Shelly-

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Can't blame a guy for a bit of compliment fishing!

BT

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BT, Go back 25 days and note that YOU volunteered yourself and Fun to chase me around the FQ. Ahhh.... how soon forgotten. I, on the otherhand, do not forget, so IF I ever get that far South, I'll remind you.

Scamp and Rabbit will act as chaperones. LOL.

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"if you read down the thread, that other interesting and amusing fellow would be you BT "

And Scamp and I get to watch (or help!)

P.S. welcome to the fora Houston. Nice to see another Louisianian around here...

~rabbit~

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pssst if you read down the thread, that other interesting and amusing fellow would be you BT

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"Chased by two of the most interesting and amusing men on the fora?" "Wow. I just got around to reading this thread. AsTimeGoesBy, I am flattered, and you are too kind."

She IS too kind! Who's the other interesting and amusing rascal??

BT

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I forgot the topic already!!

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"Chased by two of the most interesting and amusing men on the fora?"

Wow. I just got around to reading this thread. AsTimeGoesBy, I am flattered, and you are too kind.

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TOPIC: Being a single male in the lifestyle