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TOPIC: Being a single male in the lifestyle

Created by: meremsar Original Starting post for this thread:
Granted the whole concept behind swinging is having a partner; but what about those periods between relationships? How then do you, as a single male, find a woman who is in the lifestyle? It's not as if you can ask any woman "do you swing?" Even with sex being a more open topic of discussion now, it isn't a subject that can be approached lightly. To further the difficulty, you are now practically shunned from all of the groups/clubs you once attended. Or asked for exceptionally high donations which wouldn't be necessary if a more thorough screening were employed. There are easy ways to discern who is there for a quick lay, and who is truly involved in the lifestyle. As far as getting "certified" on this site; I don't need your authentication as to who I am and living up to my word. If I say I will or won't do something, write it in stone. I'm not here to hook up, I want to find a partner already involved in the lifestyle. I thought this would be a good place to start. Looks like I was wrong.

Created by: meremsar
Original Starting post for this thread:

Granted the whole concept behind swinging is having a partner; but what about those periods between relationships? How then do you, as a single male, find a woman who is in the lifestyle? It's not as if you can ask any woman "do you swing?" Even with sex being a more open topic of discussion now, it isn't a subject that can be approached lightly. To further the difficulty, you are now practically shunned from all of the groups/clubs you once attended. Or asked for exceptionally high donations which wouldn't be necessary if a more thorough screening were employed. There are easy ways to discern who is there for a quick lay, and who is truly involved in the lifestyle. As far as getting "certified" on this site; I don't need your authentication as to who I am and living up to my word. If I say I will or won't do something, write it in stone. I'm not here to hook up, I want to find a partner already involved in the lifestyle. I thought this would be a good place to start. Looks like I was wrong.

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User Details are only visible to members.	"Location is key" --------------------------- Hosted a couple from out of town last weekend...I guess I was in the right location?
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Location is the key." While generally that is true, I've been fortunate enough to have visitors from across the country, and even north of the border.. :-)
Emeryville CA			Username hidden (12138 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Will Penn - that's Church right there! - I also received one such message yesterday (1st one unsolicited), we'll see how it goes tonight. Patience and an unwavering positive attitude!
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Very, very true...
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just wanted to say that I received two unsolicited messages today from couples that would like to get together soon.....and I'm pretty happy about it. Being over 50 is not a death sentence. Having a rotten, entitled attitude is.
Chambersburg PA			Username hidden (27 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I love pickles, the harder the better ! Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4096 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lol @ Sav Pickles are fun. Or at least I love the pickling process. Getting all of those different scents, spices and juices all over that pickle till its a perfect flavor and hardness.
Riverview MI			Username hidden (87 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not sure about a pickle, but I have lots of plans for him ;).
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12293 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Jax, I am sure you will get yourself in a pickle ;) Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4096 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This swinging cucumber is awaiting said plans.
Riverview MI			Username hidden (87 post)

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