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a couple in a bar ask me if I would join them in a threesome. after talking to them for a while I said yes. we go to their house and the gose in the bedroom so we can talk some more,then she tells me she is going to fil for divorice because she did not want to do this, but he talk her into doing it.shewas going to did it but she was never going to do it agian.I said;well you and him need to talk because I am out of here,Iam not going to get mixed up in other peoples drama...just my thought...bububye

Kingston TN
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My only gripe is the dead silence.

I'd much rather get a "dude, you are ugly!" than the sound of crickets.

Can SLS put a "Thanks but No Thanks" button in the e-mail app so that people who aren't interested can more easily say so?

Lawrenceville GA
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respect,respect ,respect, take your time, whats your hurry,get to know people,it takes time, not a week or a mouth ,some times it takes a year, go to the clubs for the people to check you out , say hi how you doing . that don t mean you have to hang around with just one person all the time. just chat like you was in a regular bar.Its no differant than trying to pick a girl at a bar except there two of them.that means you have to be really good.hahaha...bubububye

Kingston TN
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beenin single is cool,,, nothin wrong with it,,, no problem for me in the lifestyle. there are plenty of women to party with.

Newmarket Canada
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post-rant postscript: tip of the hat to the single guys who "get it" - understand what this is about - and approach it with class and patience


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OK sorry but its my turn for my moment of annoyance. I appreciate that single guys get frustrated and we witness it in the forums all the time, and I've also seen couples get frustrated with the single males for whining all the time. As such, I know this isn't very original, but guys please - PLEASE - STFU!

Honestly what were you expecting when you started trolling for experiences with women who already are married to other men? That you would be some rare and precious commodity - that "rare" guy who wants no string attached sex with another woman? And a woman who you get for free, no less, when she throws herself at you? Honestly, guys, even if you know nothing about the lifestyle there's the principle of "if it's too good to be true, it is". You can get an escort, or you can put in the work to have a regular vanilla partner like most single guys out there. But no strings attached sex with women who want you without you putting in any real work? Really? It really frustrates you THAT much that it's tough to find that?!?!?!

It stands to reason that this isn't "easy". Duh.

OK... I'm fine now... just had to get that out...


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Yes but most of the women on AFF aren't real. :)

Springfield VA
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Face it, single men have it rough on here. Maybe because of the married men who pretend to be single and cheat around, single men who pretend to be couples, men who don't know how to interact with other people, men who flake, or whatever various other reasons some couples and single women don't want single guys on here.

I'm also on AFF and there seems to be A LOT less negativity towards single guys on there, with a lot less hidden profiles ("Sorry, this user has chosen to have their profile hidden from Single Males.")

What helps the single guy cause: - Having a good well thought out and written profile. - Some good decent pictures. NOT just pictures of your dick. - Being personable & not pushy.

There are some things that might help.

Far Rockaway NY
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whats the big deal, you may say that i am a single,,, but i do not see it that way. I class myself as a bachelor ,because i am. i have sat on my butt at partys more than once, thats there problem if they do not want to have anything to do with you. at the end of the evening, i go my way and i do find someone to play with. act as a loser they will see you as one, act as a winner, you are one, its there lose if someone else get to play with you. beening bachelor or single awesome.

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I have had somewhat of a good time on here. What I find though, is that there are more couples that are flakes. Not to say single guy aren't, but many times we are never given a chance. I'm good either way, never want to be anywhere I'm not wanted. I hope everyone is good and have the fun they want to have. TGIF

Sacramento CA
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