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User Details are only visible to members.	KW, We're one of the rude people. We respond if and when feel it is appropriate and happily ignore anything we wish at any time for whatever reason. This is our life, our relationship and our swinging experience and we will make absolutely NO concessions to the needs or desires of others that do not suit our desires. I am tired of getting emails from people who clearly state "soft swingers" and want to hook up. The simple fact they think it is perfectly OK to ask us to adjust our desires (Full Swap) to suit theirs (Soft Swap) is insulting to say the least. I quit responding to them for the most part. Our profile is CLEAR . Of nonsmokers who write and say "hey if you could refrain from smoking we'd love to meet you...you're really hot" . How RUDE it would be of us to write a Soft Swap couple and say" hey I noticed your soft swap but I am hoping you will make an exception in our case.........trust me we're really fun and you'll like us ". Or "hey I see you don't like smokers, how about smoking for the night, we'd really like to play with you". The truth of the matter is I don't really care what "others" would rather have, do or get . Had they taken the time to read our profile they'd not have wasted their time or mine and I see no reason to waste any more of my time on the just to appease their egos. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4026 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Junk mail and an appropriate email asking if you would be interested in talking further are two very different things. And there is nothing hypocritical about having a different opinion. If you'll go back and read, I even wrote that you are entitled to your opinion. If I happen to find it rude, that I my prerogative. Sorry if it offends you.
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'd complain, Those solid gold dildo's are to fucking heavy :)
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2058 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	John, I agree. But you've been here long enough to know that some would complain if you were passing out solid gold dildos. :)
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"someone owes you something just because you emailed them." There you go. Some could not care less if they come across as rude. It's not rude as far as they are concerned, and if you don't agree, fuck you. It's their right to feel that way, and trust me, we've been down this road enough times to know, you will never change their minds. We see it as a good way to determine character. If someone is not considerate enough to respond to a simple appropriate email, that tells all we need to know and its better to know it before wasting time to meet them.
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"and the sender has no right to complain if they get no response." Thats true, But they also complain about getting a no thank you response !
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2058 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it has been sufficiently established that most here understand that we're not talking about responding to "lets fuck" email. We're talking about email from people who clearly have read your profile, have reason to believe they may be a good match, and have written a respectful email. Anything less, and the sender has no right to complain if they get no response.
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Former, we have said the same from day one but some here just feel they do not owe anyone that courtesy." Personally we don't owe anyone the courtesy of a reply when they email us with 5 words in the header of the email and nothing in the body of it. or they have two sentences filled out in their profile. Or no pictures, with today's technology and you have no pictures you're hiding something. If you can't make the time, neither can we. it's as simple as that. What gets me are these same people as described above think we are the ones that are rude.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2058 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Former, we have said the same from day one but some here just feel they do not owe anyone that courtesy. My favorite are those who contend that they are inundated with so many requests that they just do not have time for all those pesky "not interested" responses. LOL
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Maybe it is just me but I do not block anyone unless I have a good reason to. Just because I got an email from someone that I am not attracted to is not one of those reasons. I would like to think that we are all adults here and can take the time to send a quick "not interested" response.
Severn MD			Username hidden (14 post)

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