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Created by: cherryblossom1968 Original Starting post for this thread:
I need some advice from anyone willing to give it. I attend swing parties with my husband. We have a great time although I would say I tend to have more fun than him. Here is why: My husband is not overly large, he's not circumsised, not overly long lasting and when he cums, he's done. I on the other hand have a high sex drive. I am multi orgasmic and have recently found that I can squirt. So anyway, my problem is that while we meet couples to play with. The often don't want to play again because they didn't have a good time with BOTH of us. So, I am wondering how do men learn to control ejaculation and/or shorten their "turn around" time? I am able to play solo but a lot of couples want same room only and we really enjoy that as well.

Created by: cherryblossom1968
Original Starting post for this thread:

I need some advice from anyone willing to give it.

I attend swing parties with my husband.  We have a great time although I would say I tend to have more fun than him.  Here is why:

My husband is not overly large, he's not circumsised, not overly long lasting and when he cums, he's done.  I on the other hand have a high sex drive.  I am multi orgasmic and have recently found that I can squirt.

So anyway, my problem is that while we meet couples to play with.  The often don't want to play again because they didn't have a good time with BOTH of us.  So, I am wondering how do men learn to control ejaculation and/or shorten their "turn around" time?

I am able to play solo but a lot of couples want same room only and we really enjoy that as well.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you I will keep that in mind next time and let you know how it works. -J
Adrian MI			Username hidden (36 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ok, so Yorktown Va would be a good stopping place between.... G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	yep right down the road from allentown shell ;) I have a bunch of family up all over that area. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OMFG PG, I just realized how close Nazareth is to Allentown until you said that just now, OMG!! Thats IT, I'm calling my mother in law and acting sweet, gotta make a trip up to Atown soon! SNAP, Crackle and POP baby!! Before you think I'm insane...Allentown, Pennsylvania is Jay's hometown.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	only if you work there ;) in which case you can give me a personal tour {weg} PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	for some reason I just got an urge to go home to Allentown,PA and visit........ I have been to Nazareth many times and I'm quite sure now I missed one of the better attractions. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you guys all for the advice really helped and the magnums don't slip. ;) YAY The problem with going soft with condoms didn't seem to be a problem last night. lol Thank you all. We are very satisfied.
Adrian MI			Username hidden (36 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	MR and MRS, you might want to practice with condoms at home just the two of you and make it sexy playtime to get rid of the condom mentaility that most men experience. We have yet to try that, but was told it's really helpful, especially when my husband ALWAYS gets hard and stays that way with me, so maybe he would'nt have that condom issue. I'm rambling, but when I heard that advice, I thought it was good. Also, perhaps a cock ring. They make those stretchy jelly ones, ones w/ vibrators on them, etc etc. Shell, THAT would go hand in hand (pardon the pun) to thwart your ADD! hehehe! As for oral, I'm mostly a giver, as it doesn't always get me off either...and I tend to start thinking too much too. I like eye to eye contact, or at least glancing over my shoulder from time to time while being pounded from behind. But I do cum easily from manual, and it's my favorite way to orgasm the most deeply. I wasn't thinking about how often or how easily I can orgasm, but that makes sense now that you said it. Nothin' like a cock, but I can enjoy a man's hands if he's tired or had just had sex and isn't up to it again yet! Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yep, they'll slip. LOL. And then you have ME going WTF do you mean, you think it slipped. LMFAO. Try the magnums, you and your husband...so if it slips off you know they are too big like E said. And E, tell your husband....Oh SNAP!!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	And I agree with your policy on condoms, just know that it is an issue that can be resolved :0).
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