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User Details are only visible to members.	Honestly the two of us are to lazy and really don't have the desire to spend time sexting others and the times other have tried sexting us we look for a way to politely end the conversation so we can get back to what we where doing.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We had a bit of an issue with texting one member of another couple a while back wherein some of the things said were taken out of context or not shared with the spouse. The failure to discuss messages verbally also led to the negative outcome. So our warning to others is, be cautious of not only the content of your adult messages but the context as well. And google voice on each persons phone with the same account allows for uber-transparency in communications!
Worthington OH			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're ok with pretty much whatever, especially with this...sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's annoying, regardless, there aren't any secrets between us so we don't usually worry about it, besides, he likes me "cheating" on him....ha
Mokena IL			Username hidden (42 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	playtimetxcpl, welcome to the forums! Good luck to you, keep reading and posting :) And most of all, have fun! elc, you made a very good point. There is this couple I see on occasion, and he is a wordsmithian! His texts are little masterpieces... The steamy and sexy messages he sends me are definitely inappropriate for anyone but me to read lol. He does know, I live by myself, and at work, my phone is on me. Still, when I get to think, what might happen, should someone else get a hold of my phone... OMG, that would be something lol. And yes, his girlfriend knows and approves :)
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1937 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	One of the trickier parts of texting is who you are texting and where they leave their phone lying around. (i.e. kids, vanillas, co-workers, etc.)
Grantham NH			Username hidden (1472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We talked about it and agree totally that you should make sure that everyone is OK with the situation. Obviously, we're still new to the scene, so our view might be slightly skewed. However, the current couple we are playing with gave us both of their numbers. They have both of ours. Because I'm the more outgoing one, I communicate more with them. But, I (the male) sometimes send a text to the male just so he's aware of something that me and the female have discussed. I don't want there being any ugly surprises the next time we meet up. I also made it a point to ask what's cool up front to talk/text about and what's not. I can be a fun, flirty person, but I don't want to be that way at the expense of a friendship or possibly destroying a relationships. That being said, everything is great between the four of us. They are also the type of couple that we can get together with to talk, eat, take a trip, and be satisfied if no sex were to happen.
Waco TX			Username hidden (44 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JDJ, welcome aboard! And to answer your question, I have met one couple, who are true friends now. Just like vanilla friends. Only difference, we play :) But besides that, we hang out, do things together, talk, share stories, problems, bad times, good times, just like with vanilla friends :) To make it clear, we had become playmates before we became friends. We just happened to get along absolutely fantastic, and we cherish and treasure the friendship that followed the initial attraction. Of course, our relationship is finely balanced. I have heard of people becoming friends, but the play stopped. Then some folks would end the friendship because sexual attraction disappeared. Some would become friends and develop some feeling of exclusiveness, which is not what I am seeking. So far, so good! We are doing great keeping the balance healthy. It is the best of both worlds! But I can certainly see, that trying to achieve and maintain that kind of a relationship, is actually quite a risky business. Best of luck to anyone who might want to try... And congratulations to those who managed to do so!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1937 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Although friendship is not our primary reason for being here we have made some true friends, some play partners and others we meet socially with no sex but we love them dearly. We really prefer keeping our swinging life separate from our everyday life and thus we rarely mix the 2. Personally we have found the more we get to know others the less interested we are in having sex with them lol. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4110 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would be concerned that "they" are not really a couple. I would be hesitant to get too involved with people you've never met via text. There are a lot of fakes and flakes here so be careful. I can not even begin to tell you the horror stories of men pretending to be a "couple" . If on the other hand you KNOW they're a couple I still be very careful, if you feel they do not communicate well there WILL BE ISSUES and it will be ALL YOUR FAULT.....well it won't be at all but be assured HE will claim it is all your fault and she will be far madder at YOU than at HIM....human nature says she will stand by her man and make you the bad guy. If something doesn't feel right , it probably isn't. Save the detailed , extended texts for those you know well and have met . Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4110 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think we should always follow our gut.... better than having a regret we sort of saw coming. So much already lies unknown or unexpected in the lifestyle, I don't like to chance something I already had a bad feeling about. ...and welcome to the forums JDJ, ...nice to see you here! ;))
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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