same room or separate rooms: Swingers Discussion 1947661061

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User Details are only visible to members.	" my point exactly. good to know i'm not the only one who sees this ridiculousness. " SS, What is the rediculousness actually? ... are you talking about the conversation of this subject, or the obvious (or non obvious) personal digs being made? or both? I'm not asking for an explanation, I'm just wondering if you are looking ...between the conversation, for the rediculousness, as I am looking ...between the rediculousness, for the conversation. I've been thinking about separate room play lately and since this is the Swingers Advice group, I think there has been some good advice and some interesting differences here. (personal issues aside) Just curious if you don't see some of that at all...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What can I say? I like the "bad boys" ;-)
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"funny and quite pathetic shit going on here..." LOL. my point exactly. good to know i'm not the only one who sees this ridiculousness. G, you are clearly headed down the road to ruin. haven't you been warned about me? :) L2Play. could i get a little jumping up and down with that cheering?
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeppers!
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6292 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ditto beautiful lady!
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12291 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And that's what makes this place fun and entertaining lol. You can't make this shit up as someone once said. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4095 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would have cheered for you J, but I don't want you to think I'm stalking you ;-} Lurking, maybe... yeah, lurking....
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kind , Great response ! At any given time the exact same comment can either be a dig or a compliment depending on the tone used and the ears listening. That being said my partner knows my frail points and therefore does what he can to feed my securities and not add to my insecurities. I don't believe Mr Sav "holds" back ANYTHING but as a responsible loving adult he has mastered the art of tact and is very sensitive to the needs of other people...his playmate of the moment as well as mine. I still firmly believe that ANY comparison to one's own spouse should never be spoken out loud. If one can not form a compliment to a person without at the same time insulting someone else they should remain silent. Privately and publicly. I also pity both parties, the giver and the receiver if they feel flattered to hear things like that or think it is somehow the most flattering thing you can say. The world is full of differences to be celebrated and enjoyed but with a keen sense of different isn't always "better" and their comments should reflect that. I also many people struggle with "what" to say and mindlessly say what they think you want to hear. I'm a skeptic on many levels and don't buy into lame ass compliments that reflect words like "best" hottest" tightest" blah blah blah. Many men I have been with will right out ask....."Am I the best you've ever had " at such and such? How very sad that only by telling them they are the BEST do they feel good about themselves. Questions like those I refuse to answer and if pushed chances are the asker will not like the answer I give lol. The art of flirtation is not the words you speak but the sincerity behind them. Tell me you're having a great time and I'll believe you , tell me I'm the best you ever had and I'll laugh at you and pity your social skills at the same time. I'm not insecure in the least but I am wise enough to know that when one resorts to compliments such as that chances are they couldn't think of anything genuine to say. Maybe it is just me but please don't try to flatter me with bullshit and do not ever compare my body, my style or anything else about me with your wife. I will not allow you to insult her like that to me. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4095 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just had to catch up on about 40 posts here and I think so many of them are very understandable regarding same room or separate, and the conversation has been interesting. I've said before I think they're equally hot and like Sexus said there are benefits to both and for whatever reasons you like one vs. the other... is exactly how you should play. But a main theme of this conversation seems to come down to 'compliments vs insults' ....and knowing the difference may seem to be a problem for some people in the lifestyle. I also understand what Flirt has been trying to say. (I think) But if what he talked about happens alot, perhaps smarter vetting can help see any insecurities, (although I'm sure something surprising can still happen once in the bedroom). But if they seem like a loving and respectful couple, maybe there really will be less or none of that drama. I also think new people in the lifestyle have alot of things to work out as they experience new things. Some might not even know yet what may bother them or not, but that really needs to be discussed later with eachother, so possibly maturity and not too much drunkeness could avoid things going awry with things like this ...or avoiding newbies all together. As far as insecurities go, yea, I bet most have one or two, (lol) Let's say my chipped tooth does bother me alot.. (i dont really have a chipped tooth, lol) Would one's playing experience be so awful to 'never' say anything about how " beautiful 'her' teeth are, and/or I sure wish my wife had them" ??? Like is that such a big deal ...to, yea, hold back saying some things here or there ...if you knew it would hurt the person you loved most? ...isn't there SO much other stuff to say ...and fully enjoy?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	YEA SS!!! hows that?
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