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hellodm read my mind exactly. The thing with these forums is it is just a SMALL portion of the people actually involved in the lifestyle. Not EVERYONE holds back, but many do. It's a fact and I have seen it.


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We haven't tried different rooms yet. Maybe down the road. We have done same room stuff so far and it hasn't been an issue. Neither of us hold back for fear of jealously or anything.

As a matter of fact, we usually talk about it and sometimes joke about the other getting really into it or really enjoying a certain thing. No problems here. And truth be told, we both seem to get off a little on watching the other.

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Hellodm I totally agree with u.


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Same or separate is absolutely a personal preference for each couple. There is no "right" or "wrong." Both are fun, and we enjoy both, although P prefers separate. She just can't reach orgasm when distracted, and other folks in the room or bouncing on the same bed are too distracting. Still, it's fun. Orgasm isn't a requirement every single time.

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Akronym.

I like that spelling of it.

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For years, my wife and I were seperate rooms. More recently we got into same room play, and it's brought everything to a new level. Watching each other, group play, etc. We don't have anything against the seperate room play, but it doesn't compare.

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KD, good luck with that. LOL

Enjoy your weekend.

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KD, it sounds as though you think there's some kind of "cloak and dagger" posting going on here. i made a comment several posts ago (no cloak and dagger, just straight talk) about the fact that some people can say certain things here with no repercussions, and others do not get that courtesy. IMO, the reason is simple. if someone we like says it, we'll often stay quiet even if we strongly disagree. if someone we don't like says it, we're going to go after them. we will twist their words and take comments out of context, and as i said, based on that ridiculousness, we make mountains out of mole hills.

obligatory disclaimer: yes, we know this is not everyone here.

my intention was to encourage Flirt not to take it personally, even though it is sometimes, quite personal. some of us like to inject humor into any thread. if that's a distraction, it's one we'll have to learn live with because it will never change. I love RDY's sense of humor. her post was funny as hell. i post humor where i see it. but it feels like some of us only find humor where it's directed toward people we don't like. others take themselves so seriously, they can't even laugh at themselves, but they love to laugh at others.

that just seems ridiculous to me. just my opinion, and i always accept the possiblity that i may be completely full of shit. :)

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Kind, Do yourself a favor and stop trying to figure it out. Enjoy what you can and ignore or laugh at the rest. Many times I find the only "hidden" meaning is in the one who is looking for it.

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um... i think we've all established it was funny.

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