same room or separate rooms: Swingers Discussion 194766

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User Details are only visible to members.	I realize that this is a rather old post but I felt like tossing my two cents in. Mrs. Sav - I adore reading your posts and find myself sharing them with the other half. "Look, look honey she summed it all up for me again!". We are primarily a same room (preferably same bed) couple. We've tried other variations and it always seems to leave us feeling like something is lacking. I'll look around to make eye contact and realize my partner in crime isn't there! Sharing afterwards doesn't compare for us, sometimes the look on his face is so priceless...and I know he loves to watch me please and be pleased. This isn't a judgement on anyone else's style of play; simply our preference. As far as "letting go" we don't seem to have this problem. Of course as tried and true exhibitionists/voyeurs watching and being watched by each other adds to the excitement. If some tactless ass made rude comments about his spouse he'd find very quickly that I am not afraid to call an end to playtime. Neither myself or my other half have any issues walking away from nasty people at any point (learned this lesson the hard way). Thankfully we've learned to vet pretty well and look for people who adore each other as much as we do. We're new to the official "LS" but not new to group play and I think our years of growth together gives us a strong foundation for good experiences. Fingers crossed that we continue to pick good playmates!
Clinton Township MI			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I always end up laughing....your suppose to be having fun, and where does it say that when it comes to sex, you have to be 100% serious and focused. Some of our very best times, was when someone said or did something and we all ended up laughing. If you can't laugh and have fun with 4 naked people, then you need to lighten up and enjoy yourself, because you are in a LS that a lot of people only fantasize about.
Shamokin PA			Username hidden (1033 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We just have to laugh. Sometimes it's all just hilarious and delightful.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6056 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was thinking along those lines in a couple posts that I've been through this evening. The protocol for intimacy and love making do not apply here. When it comes to play time, we're in it for the light hearted fun of it all.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Some of our most fun playtimes have come about when we're all still laughing and being playful like we were before the clothes came off. " All of our play sessions include laughter! I am the guilty party I simply am not having fun if I'm not laughing.....men with frail egos need not apply. Humor is critical to me and frankly more often than not I find sex funny ! Now granted there at times for "making love" but those are in no way when we are with playmates. I laugh more than anyone I ever met, laughter makes me feel good, the sound of laughter delights me and someone who can make me laugh is a precious gift. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4088 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We do both it just depends on the mood and who we are playing with. All is good for us. Either way we will going home recapping the evening with each other.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's the whole reason for same room play. If I was going to ignore my wife the entire time, why wouldn't we be in seperate rooms? We play in the same room because we enjoy the interaction of it all. Something else we've noticed... Sometimes when it comes down to playtime, the room goes silent and everyone gets serious. Some of our most fun playtimes have come about when we're all still laughing and being playful like we were before the clothes came off.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Totally agree with you both, live and learn. It's just sad that, if you both agree to enter the LS together, and play together, why would you focus only on the playmate and not your life partner. We have learned to watch body language and interactions as well. Nothing worse when only one half is attracted and the other half, will just go along to satisfy their partner. We learned to stay away from them also
Shamokin PA			Username hidden (1033 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL, I hear that. The first couple we ever played with physically pull us away from each other numerous times, the wife actually said to me " he's mine tonight" I was trying to be oh so cool and really had no idea how things went so I kept silent. We had a 2 hours drive home to discuss what we thought about the whole situation and swinging and we both decided we would never let that happen again......Funny, I wasn't even upset just more matter of fact that of that was swinging NO thanks lol. We learned a lot that night and have never made that mistake again. Looking back the signs were all there in as we had dinner we simply failed to pay attention. Live and learn. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4088 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lol, that's exactly one of our red flags with couples...if they never acknowledge each other, or the hubby is only focused on me. Now, this was live and learn for us. Happened two times, both on occasions where we played on first meet. Never again. There's my handsome hubby walking over to me, engaging me, going back to his partner while my partner has no interest in his wife at all. That's so unattractive to me. Our best moments are seeing and hearing each other. Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

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