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TOPIC: Reminiscent
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AZBedrockers
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So hi! I'm Pebbles and I'm quite shy compounded with anxiety, people say "don't be shy", it doesn't work that way. BamBam isn't the least bit shy, but he's very quiet, is uncomfortable starting conversation but can have a conversation with anyone, very intelligent. Now, my plea for advice! We've been in the lifestyle the years now, met many people and had good times, our problem is the enfamous wallflower syndrome with a bully backer! We were both bullied during our school years and those memories don't just go away. If we've gone to a House party or a club, it's like we've got Harry Potters invisibility cloak on! Anywhere we go everybody knows each other, Meet & Greet it or be honest about the cliques that are there. We're friendly, not up in your face friendly but we're good folk! We've tried connecting with people before events, hosting, and I'm not saying we've not had a damn good time because we have! We send requests to meet folks and most don't even answer, "would you like to meet and let us but you a drink?" The same feeling in school when you were judged on appearance alone, and we're not THAT hard on the eyes! I know our lack of bubbling enthusiasm is part, but really? Is our profile horrible? We're always clean, well dressed, made an effort, some do not. We're good hosts and when we all get in a groove it's a good thing. We just have a hell of a time finding someone to get our groove on with! Thanks for any friendly advice!
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TOPIC: Reminiscent
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