posted weight or not: Swingers Discussion 125890

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TOPIC: posted weight or not

Created by: BiFemPlayLand Original Starting post for this thread:
Just curious how do you feel when you see profiles where the people don't list their weight? Personally I think it's a big broadcast to everyone that they didn't list it because they know they are over weight and they are embarrassed by it.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Actually, pictures don't tell the whole story either, LOL..... Its pretty well known that people look larger in pictures than real life. Look at a 180 pound compeittive bodybuilder who often looks like he weights over 200 in photos. One of my friends is a beautiful, voluptuous woman with a damn near perfect hourglass figure. She resembles the former adult film star Ruby. In photographs she looks thicker than she does in real life. Still photos can make a person look 20-30 pounds heavier than they are. Motion picture film can add 40 pounds to your appearance. When Cecille B. Demille was filming Samson and Delillah he wanted Steeve Reeves to diet off 30 pounds to look more like an old poster of him. When Reeves refused, he was replaced by Victor Mature. True hollywood story. Photographers can explain this stuff to you. But photos ARE a better indicator than numerical statistics. Keep in mind however that some people are photogenic and take photos that make them look a lot better than they look in real life.
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Like I told D, anyone that would tell you no is a stupid Mother you know what'er. lol
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I guess its perception. Its not something i thought would be a big deal. My wife does not look like she weighs what she does. If I had nothing to go by but her height and weight.....Myself, not being into bigger girls.....I would pass on the profile with no pics. Yet regardless of the number.....I find her totally hot. Yet the number in my head is a turnoff. I dont know if that makes sense so please dont flame me, i dont mean it in a bad way about anyone. Its just if I had no pics to go by and just her "stats".......What I picture in my head and what she really does look like are WAYYY OFF. Other sites dont use weight and use body type. I think thats more accurate honestly. My wife lists as "a little extra padding" Yet people tell her shes nuts for listing that way. Its all in if youre honest. We also see women on that site who are bigger than my wife and i put together who list as "average" Being a bi-guy I also interact with gay guys who are the most blunt, non-sugarcoated people you can meet. I weigh around 145 and have never fluctuated more that 5 lbs either way since I can ever remember. I was 145 in high school. Im 140-145 now. Yet in the same night....Ive had guys respond saying "Sorry, too boney for me" and other guys respond "I SAID....NO FATTYS RESPOND." How the hell can I be both anorexic looking and morbidly obese from the same dam photo? I dunno. So the whole weight/stats thing is so hard to go by. I dont even look at it. Send me a pic and Ill go by that.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah, it just makes no sense to me. You simply aren't going to fool anyone when its time to drop your clothes to your ankles.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	THANK YOU Hand and Taranis..... I'm tall and have a lot of muscle, and I read tons of profiles, look at the pictures and the posted weights, and no way do I look like that. No one believes what I weigh. We have pics, and will open them. It has nothing to do with insecurity in any way, shape or form - I believe that is quite a misperception. If some people won't read our profile, I guess it's their loss; have received plenty of emails, so I guess we are doing all right....! I'm very confident naked, probably even more so than with clothes on....lol
Gibsonia PA			Username hidden (6608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Taran - no photos more than no weight... YES, Absolutely... We are not going to email someone and ask to see pics, I have read a few profiles, that sound great but No Pic No Mail
Grafton OH			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"No photos bothers me a lot more than no numbers..." Ditto X10
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It really doesn't matter to me. I have no problem playing with larger ladies and I am happy when they and slender gals feel the same way by me. I'd rather see somebody leave it zero than to fudge though. I once met somebody whose listed weight was off by a hundred pounds. Thing is, she had vision problems and had typed a 1 in instead of 2, so it wasn't actulally dishonesty. Still, I liked to have not been able to pick her out in a group, LOL.... Some people are reluctant to give it for other reasons. One of my best friends weighs 200 pounds, but doesn't look like she weighs more than 140. She has shapely legs a small stomach and large breasts. I know other people who look a LOT better than you would guess by their height/weight stats. No photos bothers me a lot more than no numbers...
Logan WV			Username hidden (1022 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This was a fun read... As far as weight on the outside, I have had it there and removed it... Jeepers, I agree with you that I could and probably will put it inside my profile... But as so many have mentioned, in the "deception" and "embarrassed" or not "confident" therefore not going to be good in the acts of play.. I dont agree. - I weigh much more then I appear too... there fore if I put down the real number, and we meet, you think I lied, cause I dont look like it... So I have removed it again. When it was up, and we met people, 9 of 10 times, I was told, 'no way u weigh as much as your profile says" (fat and muscle weigh very differently) As far as comfortable in my skin and confident... Hell yes baby.. Would I like to turn back the clock a few years and look in my 20s again, tell me who wouldnt, but I have a great body and know how to use it... So NOT ALL the women not posting weight are insecure... I read profiles, not the outside superficial information on the profile. I have seen so many women and some men on here posting a weight, I know is total BS.. So I dont lie, I just dont post it so I cant be called a liar. I posted several pics of us which is more than I can say for some profiles 90 of her and non of him... yeah, Im passing that one up.. has he been threw the ugly forest or hot with a mac truck? Sorry rant over... not starting a fight, just a beautiful curvey gals thoughts
Grafton OH			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fuck the bunch of you!! Ooops. Wrong thread..... I've noticed that some people list their weight within their profile--and leave the zero at the top. In my mind, this is a reasonable compromise. It means that people need to have a bit of interest before they see that somewhat "personal" bit of information.
Shippensburg PA			Username hidden (1794 post)

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TOPIC: posted weight or not