not all four connect sexually: Swingers Discussion 188108

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TOPIC: not all four connect sexually

Created by: wear4u Original Starting post for this thread:
we have a couple that we like as people but my wife and the other guy are not a good fit sexually. i and the other lady have outrageous sex. my wife supports that i continue with the lady but we need help on how to handle this. we don't want to be disrespectful, we like them socially and would like to see them but not as a foursome. appreciate the advice.

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User Details are only visible to members.	With the couple-couple dynamic almost impossible with us we agree to play separately.
Pulaski TN			Username hidden (491 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think passion and I are alot alike. I also like seeing the good side of people...but I have an allergy to bullshit...and a very quick alarm system. And if I feel crossed, I am incredibly quick to let anyone know what I am thinking lol.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs Sav, life is so much easier when you're a bitter, cynical bitch like me. ;-) I'm just kidding- roses are nice, too :-)
Concord CA			Username hidden (2087 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lost, Sounds like she did Jay a favor by making a scene before hand and he should be grateful lol. Sometimes I'm just so naive and always try to think the best of people, even when I know better . Than they behave poorly and my rose colored glasses come off and I'm shocked at the rudeness and stupidity of some people. It doesn't take me long to put the glasses back on and see the world and most people as good, decent human beings but for those few minutes of disgust I shake my head muttering WTF???? I'm so grateful that our swing life has had so few of those moments effecting us directly . I couldn't and wouldn't handle it if that was the norm. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4094 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs Sav, isnt that bullshit? I had a guy, listen to this lol. He and his wife had issues, major issues. At a house party, I went to sleep early...said to Jay go play and have fun, just play in the more public areas so if I wake I can find you. Set. Well, this lady was INSISTENT that he go to a private room because she did not want her husband to watch. Jay said no, my wife asked that I not. 3 times he had to tell her no. Her husband ended up getting mad, they left...next morning he tells me. Well, me being me LOL...I emailed her and said I'm glad y'all had fun...but next time please do not pressure my husband to do something I specifically asked him not to do. He was not being stubborn, he was respecting me. Her husband, the PISSED ONE LOL, went CRAZY off on me. Then he said this: "well, if someone had not gone to bed maybe I would have had someone to play with and this would not have happened." I was like OH MOTHER FFFFF no you didn't blame me for your wife's behavior lol. You dont want to know the remainder of that email hahahaahaha.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In the life style, as in life, there are dickheads. Selfish, self centerd and ignorant people who can really spoil your day if you let them. The best way to deal is to ignore them and go on having your own fun. We have met several people over the years that fall into the group you are talking about. Guys who brought their wives to meet us and the women did not know we were swingers! WE were supposed to convince her! Believe me, nothing is new under the sun. Lost1, nice car. I just love a pretty gal, tight denim and a 57 shevy
Hagerstown MD			Username hidden (219 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What a creep the guy is, no better word for it. He obviously has no respect for his wife, which is sad...
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (1375 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lost, It was horrible to sit and listen to these people talk of this man and his sneaky little hobby. It made me sick to hear each of these woman saying the same things about him , everywhere we go people are talking and yet at every party there they are. I really couldn't care less how he lives his life but clearly she has no clue. One time she asked Mr Sav to dance and being a gentleman he agreed, the whole time they were dancing her idiot hubby was glaring at me, muttering under his breath and angry I had not danced with him, like somehow I owed him something. After that I had to tell Mr Sav that in the future you can not dance with her, it's sending the wrong message and I swear if I have to be friendly to her I'm going to tell her exactly what I have seen and what others are saying. I feel sorry for her, people give them the cold shoulder and its all his fault ! Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4094 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well, one thing is for sure. this LS wouldn't be the same without you guys. i appreciate you... and i'm not even fucking you!
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would rather be single than be THAT guy! I have come to realize that being single is actually an advantage in the LS but not what I want for my future. If I am fortunate enough to find someone like the ladies in these last few posts, I would be thrilled to try being a couple in the LS again. In the mean time, I am enjoying myself as a single and looking forward to meeting some of the amazing couples I have chatted with in here. Speaking of that, time to go pack!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

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TOPIC: not all four connect sexually