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| We had a couple of mf mf and like more but never can get the other couple to meet or dont show. Well sense i got into this lifestyle ive been with two close friends and husband doesnt mind but is never there when it happens and get upset about it I tell him everything that happens. My question is is it cheating on my part just courious? |
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If you have an agreement with each other that is fine with both of you to swing alone, then it would definately not be cheating.
If you did not agree to swinging seperately then yes in fact you are cheating. |
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For me and mine, we are in the life together. It is our cardinale rule that we only play together. (this means we come and go together at parties, and are in the same room together if there is a single male/female private party). You have a real twist. It is usually the woman who is left at home, while the hubby goes out. So, as far as cheating goes, in my humble opinion, as long as both you and you mate are ok with you being solo, then it is not cheating. Cheating, once again my own opinion, is when one or both step out on each other. And if your mate is upset when you talk about it, then maybe you should not be soloing.
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wait, i stand corrected it is changed, hahaha
u are still mrs pot though |
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Philadelphia PA |
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good morning mrs pot :-)
btw, isn't it time to change ur age designation? haha ps. if u don't understand the pot reference, i will explain back to the thread topic.... |
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o yea, and WELCOME to the forums, looks like u are a virgin poster :-)
plenty of good people and good/bad advice :-) |
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to be honest i was a little confused by the first part of your post.
as for the second part, i don't believe what you are doing is cheating if you are telling your husband about it but im not sure it is "swinging" either. swinging, at least to us, is all about BOTH people enjoying it. it sure sounds like your husband is not enjoying it at this point. i would suggest having a serious sit down with him to discuss your wants and needs when it comes to these activities.. |
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We had a couple of mf mf and like more but never can get the other couple to meet or dont show. Well sense i got into this lifestyle ive been with two close friends and husband doesnt mind but is never there when it happens and get upset about it I tell him everything that happens. My question is is it cheating on my part just courious?
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TOPIC: new female and couple
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