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Created by: hk7258 Original Starting post for this thread:
WE had our first real incounter with a swinging cpl last weekend.My wife was a little nervious but I was fine.They were wonderful in every way.Everything was perfect except for me.Everything was clicking except me.Granted I was not attracted to her she was a little heavy!She was so nice I tried to make it work and it wouldn't. I was so ambarrassed.My wife complain's about my dick staying hard to much.But even she couldn't get it up with this lady in my presence.I just couldn't do it My heart was there but my dick wasnt. Somebody give me some help hear I loved every minute of this watching my wife getting fucked and sucked and I couldn't do nothing for the other female. Do I need to give this lifestyle up?Should we only mess with the people we are both interested in?Or is just some jitter's that will past?

Created by: hk7258
Original Starting post for this thread:

WE had our first real incounter with a swinging cpl last weekend.My wife was a
little nervious but I was fine.They were wonderful in every way.Everything was  perfect except for me.Everything was clicking except me.Granted I was not attracted to her she was a little heavy!She was so nice I tried to make it work and it wouldn't.
   I was so ambarrassed.My wife complain's about my dick staying hard to much.But even she couldn't get it up with this lady in my presence.I just 
couldn't do it My heart was there but my dick wasnt.
  Somebody give me some help hear I loved every minute of this watching my
wife getting fucked and sucked and I couldn't do nothing for the other female.
 Do I need to give this lifestyle up?Should we only mess with the people we are
both interested in?Or is just some jitter's that will past?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Jim, I was warned about that by two different doctors, the one who first gave me viagra, and our current primary care giver, as well as a couple friends who are emts. I was warned by both that if i have any kind of heart emergency that the medics must know that I'm on viagra. Both told me the combination of viagra and that nitro pill will be fatal. Granted, I don't know for sure first hand, the fact I'm sitting here typing bears that out. but I certianly have no intention of risking finding out first hand. Any time I take viagra, I make sure my wife knows how much I took and when I took it, and she knows to tell the medics if something were to happen. Both doctors also said any nitrate within 24 hrs of viagra carrys a high risk of being fatal. This includes amal nitrate that some people use recreationaly, nitrous oxide which dentists commonly use on their patients, as well as accidental inhalation of nitrous fumes, ie racing systems etc. I'm sure there is more, those are just the ones I know of. Mike
Bedford PA			Username hidden (5527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My male friend takes ED drugs so he can play repeatedly. He's slipping from his younger days (now 43). Apparently 4-6 ladies in a night was not unheard of. Now he's finding beyond 3 things start getting difficult. He loves strange, but he likes his regular partners, too. He asked me what he could do. I suggested: -moving the strange to later in the evening. It's easier to get excited about untrodden territory. -Not to come every time he saddles up. -I consulted a gay male friend. Those boyz know how to maintain. He suggested and I purchased little jelly-like cock rings. They will fit on your finger or stretch over your entire package. Basically rubber bands but wider, softer, and made to be used over and over. He likes them. They are apparently comfortable and work. So these things may help those guys whose "day is done, but they want to run on." Mischief <--Trying to get back on topic.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Regarding Nitrates + ED drugs= very low blood pressure. There are ways to combat that if necessary. Oh, alcohol works. Should have seen me in my drinking dayz. Not a pretty sight. Regarding 2-CB. It's a substituted, amphetamine, psychedelic. But that doesn't begin to describe it. The complete description can be found in my hero's thinly veiled memoir. PIKAL. Phenethylamines I have know and loved. By Dr. Alexander Shulgin. I almost fell off the library stool when I ran across that reference! It doesn't so much block orgasms. It takes you past them. Well past them. Mischief <--knows I came of age in the 70''s. I have the hearing to prove it.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Would that be like dying "with your boots on?" :-) Actually, Mrs. Valover's greatest fear in swinging is that she'll kill some poor guy who will expire "in the act" on top of her. Now how the hell would you explain THAT to the EMTs and the family & kin of the "dearly departed?"
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I aspire to expire while "in the act." :) m-she
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User Details are only visible to members.	Jawwge, are you SURE? The warning that comes with viagra states that such effects MAY occur, not WILL occur. I carry nitroglycerin tablets with me everywhere since I had a heart attack 5 1/2 years ago. I've never needed them, thankfully, but they are my "security blanket." When we go to a swing party I do take a viagra just before we leave home for the party, and I leave my nitro at home. I only take viagra for parties and don't use it at home or when we're just getting together with one couple. I guess I'm just a sex fiend and an optimist and hope that the viagra will enable me to play more than just once or twice (if I'm in demand that night!) at a party. Since it's been 5+ years and I've had not a single additional cardiac problem, and since my cholesterol and blood pressure are now at acceptable levels, and since I pass my annual stress test at the cardiologist's office with flying colors, I'm not too worried that a swing party will bring on another heart attack. If it does, I won't be able to use nitro, so if popping an aspirin or two doesn't help and I die, at least they can't say I didn't "go out with a bang!"
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bob, it's not just can. I someone takes any kind of nitrate while on viagra, the combination WILL cause a total loss of blood pressure and the person WILL die. It is vitally important for anyone taking viagra to inform someone around them. If a heart type emergency occurs, that little pill they put under your tounge becomes lethal.
Bedford PA			Username hidden (5527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know WHAT it is(hee hee)... just not brave enough to try it :D
Hattiesburg MS			Username hidden (527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bob: You do crack me up. Posting about cyclic GMP in a swingers group. What are you trying to do sweet talk me? Mentioning phosphodiesterase...Oh..my heart poundth. Swoon. BTW, Pfizer found out Viagra doesn't work in females. Duh. I could have told them that. Vaginal blood engorgement doesn't stimulate women's main sex organ.. The mind. It's been suggested that cheese and strawberries work. Men (scientists and laymen) long for a drug to make women horny. The most effective and accessible drug to date. Alcohol. Testosterone works great too. There is documentation that 2-CB works well. I know that group of drugs inhibits orgasm. The cool thing.. It doesn't matter. Mischief<---watching them scramble now... What the hell is 2-CB?
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well said, UnbridledPassion! The original question was a valid, understandable one, and could have been posed in the forum in a way that wasn't unecessarily insensitive to the other couple.
Pensacola FL			Username hidden (1622 post)

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