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TOPIC: height and weight proportionate *and other phrases that confuse me*

Created by: eternalbliss246 Original Starting post for this thread:
i know i'm going to get slammed for this...but as we're close to leaving the site anyway,we felt it's time to speak our mind on this...we've been members for 2 years and have looked through ALOT of profiles...and we've noticed alot of people using that phrase or "no heavies" and oddly enough many of those that write this are not perfect 10's in body and MOST are not very attractive face wise...the ones that are absolutely beautiful in all ways..ok,i guess you have a right to be picky if you are perfect so we won't comment on that... but geez,doesn't anyone realize how rude it is to write something like that in your profile? if someone isn't your body type that you are looking for,simply don't reply or give a polite "no thank you,we're too far away " or "we're very busy we'll get back to you" i realize i may be a bit touchy,but isn't it shallow to not even talk to someone just because they are a few pounds overweight? maybe not everyone has the time in their schedual to get to a gym 4 hours a day,but maybe the person is eating very small portions,walking when they can,doing all they can to look their best.....personally,what we find is a bigger turn off for us,is people that just post pics of their private parts thinking that is attractive yes we have a few pics like that but we also have a variety of others too i realize i'm venting,but i just get frustrated....my wife is VERY beautiful and gets hit on all the time when we go out to see bands etc.. through my job i get hit on too,so people outside of here do find us attractive,but sadly those people are not in the lifestyle and we play as a couple,that is our rule maybe in seperate rooms but always in the same house thanks for reading this and letting me vent....and please if others feel this way as in frustrated please post...because if enough of us speak up,maybe people will see how hurtful it is to say things like "fatties are not wanted" yes we saw that in a profile thanks for reading smiling,at least trying to,as always bill of the Tina and bill couple eternalbliss

Created by: eternalbliss246
Original Starting post for this thread:

i know i'm going to get slammed for this...but as we're close to leaving the site anyway,we felt it's time to speak our mind on this...we've been members for 2 years and have looked through ALOT of profiles...and we've noticed alot of people using that phrase or "no heavies" and oddly enough many of those that write this are not perfect 10's in body and MOST are not very attractive face wise...the ones that are absolutely beautiful in all ways..ok,i guess you have a right to be picky if you are perfect so we won't comment on that...
but geez,doesn't anyone realize how rude it is to write something like that in your profile? if someone isn't your body type that you are looking for,simply don't reply or give a polite "no thank you,we're too far away " or "we're very busy we'll get back to you" 
i realize i may be a bit touchy,but isn't it shallow to not even talk to someone just because they are a few pounds overweight? maybe not everyone has the time in their schedual to get to a gym 4 hours a day,but maybe the person is eating very small portions,walking when they can,doing all they can to look their best.....personally,what we find is a bigger turn off for us,is people that just post pics of their private parts thinking that is attractive *yes we have a few pics like that but we also have a variety of others too* i realize i'm venting,but i just get frustrated....my wife is VERY beautiful and gets hit on all the time when we go out to see bands etc.. through my job i get hit on too,so people outside of here do find us attractive,but sadly those people are not in the lifestyle and we play as a couple,that is our rule *maybe in seperate rooms but always in the same house*
thanks for reading this and letting me vent....and please if others feel this way *as in frustrated* please post...because if enough of us speak up,maybe people will see how hurtful it is to say things like "fatties are not wanted" *yes we saw that in a profile*
thanks for reading
*smiling,at least trying to,as always* bill of the Tina and bill couple *eternalbliss*

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User Details are only visible to members.	I too get confused with height and weight proportionate...to what exactly? I'm built like a linebacker. 6'2 260-270lbs. So im not proportionate to mikhail barishnikov 6'1 150lbs but Im proportionate to most NFL and College Football players. I say if its worn well then dont count it out. That goes for age as well. If you are 40 or 50 but look and act younger then hey there's a shot. If you are 25 yet look and act like you are nearing collecting social security then its probably not going to get my motor humming. Not too long ago i had communcation with an couple that was in their late fifties. I had to consider long and hard , no pun intended, if i should accept their invitation. I felt horrible telling them that i was not interested in someone of that age, even though they gave me a chance. I guess i had a hang up that thier ages matched my parents. Looking back i think i made the right decision because i dont believe i would have been comfortable in a "bedroom environment". sorry i tangented pretty bad there...im done rambling...i think....ermm...yeah im done :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Well, this all reminds me of a joke about a goat, but I'll post that in the Jokes Forum. To defend my honor, let me assert that time, maturity, and becoming the father of a lovely daughter converted me from that college-age MCP (Male Chauvinist Pig) I used to be, and I have successfully morphed into a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy). :-) Old Goat Jim (ROFL)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Sheep ? Did someone say sheep? LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	Well, come to think of it, in my undergraduate days in college I did wake up next to a real "dog" once. There was a lot of late night beer involved, though, and all I could remember was that she had these huge . . . . . Well, you get it. I guess under the influence of late night beer I never looked at her FACE! LOL Sheepish Jim (ROFL - I couldn't resist that!)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Yikes, BnK!!!! You know, in all our years of swinging, we have NEVER been invited to "enjoy" such activities, nor even heard 2nd hand of someone who "partakes" of such things. Kind of makes me wonder if you guys aren't swimming in the shallow end of the gene pool! LOL Seriously, I can't imagine why you guys would be a "target" for such suggestions. You are a very cute couple, and it should be obvious to anyone that you can find plenty of fun playmates of your own species! Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	Do you think they just meant the enjoyed "doggie?" LOL I suppose not.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Have to say (did I ever mention that we have had some REALLY odd experiences in such a limited time swinging?) that we met one couple who got drunk one night and told us they enjoyed bestiality. Needless to say, that was a quick end to that meeting!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Frankly, I think this is more fantasy that reality. We don't even bother to mention that we "are not interested in watersports". It just sounds so unnecessary! Probably we have more faith in people out there than others do; we don't find it necessary to specify that we are not interested in THAT. We do say, for example, that the male is straight, that Ms. Content doesn't like smokers, and that sort of thing. But to assume there are all these "watersport lovers" out there lurking around, and that you need to fend them off, seems just plain silly. We've never had anybody even remotely suggest such a thing, or anything weird, and if we could swing for another 100 years (wouldn't that be lovely!) I'd bet we would still never encounter such oddities. Too bad that the idea has been introduced into the mainstream and now everybody feels the need to clarify "no watersports", "no animals", etc, etc. Giraffes are kind of sexy though ...just kidding!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Well, if you're going to try "water sports," maybe the shower is the best of all places! ROFL
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User Details are only visible to members.	You're not alone, Redstar, We've allways enjoyed showering together and erotically bathing each other. Allways thought that was "watersports". Boy did we ever get a fast wake up call, lol.
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