We have tried several things, but are having difficulties finding the right types of couples. We are not much into clubs or big parties, which we know limits us as events are probably the best place to meet people. We have tried a few and just not our scene. We have talked to a few couples who were interesting both here and other sites, but schedules and such have made getting together difficult. I know we are at fault for a few potential meetings as we did not want to alter our plans last minute to go an meet with a couple that seemed mildly interested. Some of our activities we know are lifestyle rich environments but they are not lifestyle events. How do you determine who is and is not? We have joined a few groups in hopes that maybe we can find some events going on with activities that we normally enjoy anyway in hopes of a better chance of meeting like minded couples. We are not opposed to just a casual hookup, but ideally are looking for couples we can get together with form more than just sex, and on a continual basis. We know our size has a bit to do with those who may possibly be interested in us, and we are continually working on that, but that takes time, and we would love to find couples who enjoy us for who we are rather than what we look like.

Any suggestions?